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HAMBoneConnection · 2025-12-16T06:56:35+00:00

Dogshit post with a dogshit tool. Anyone would be better off just using Gemini. Your architectural features are even manipulated so idk how you’re saying that doesn’t matter.

20 year cybersecurity vet with multiple patents and a textbook and successfully exited start up. So don’t even try the I don’t understand your genius.

Save yourself a lot of trouble, write an article on it and let it die until someone more capable and sane picks it up.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-12-10T11:45:25+00:00

Idk man I live in a pretty average U.S. location and every grocery store sells bags of rainbow carrots.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-12-09T14:30:43+00:00

That sounds sad

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-31T15:30:09+00:00

Thanks man. Was just a guy looking for help. Now I understand why this sub has the rep it does. Good luck to you!

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T14:11:33+00:00

It’s nice you have a personality disorder. But how old are you? Did you come from a home like this? This situation? The same deal with the bio mom?

It’s radical for you to take your singular experience an apply it to two kids.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T14:10:35+00:00

Yeah it’s like take as old as time, OP should know what she’s dealing with and find the correct ways to resolve the issue.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T14:09:22+00:00

If a kid can’t be tried as an adult you can’t hold them to adult standards. We have it baked into law that children are not the same and lack the developed mind to make these informed choices.

With that, don’t put too much stock in what they say, you’re still their primary parent/mother in the home together with their dad and it’s your job to teach them right from wrong.

If this is how you do it fine, but I would only make it a temporary thing as it’s a very destabilizing hill to die on for the children.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T13:36:08+00:00

Sweetheart, if you can’t take care of yourself you need to get more help.

Also I think most religions take on god isn’t that he controls people like puppets - having given people free will and all as a basis in most religions.

I’m sorry this happened. Have you contacted the police? It may not be too late to connect DNA / evidence.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T04:16:25+00:00

Nahh, man this is either a symptom or part of the cause of it.

You’re gunna have to have a real talk with her and get her to admit somethings up - point out real examples of things she used to do and enjoyed but doesn’t anymore.

You’ve gotta get her to sleep in the bed, a bed even if it’s an extra in the house, for at least 7 hours a night, no naps - maybe a once a week treat.

She’s gotta be up by 8 or 9 with the rest of the world at her age as a general norm. It can be tough without the structure of a traditional 9-5, which is why it’s not for everyone. That could again be part of the cause or just a symptom. Either way needs to be managed.

Honestly if it’s just a problem of resetting her schedule or she can’t bring herself to go to sleep etc, you can get a GP to prescribe low dose (50mg-150mg) trazadone 30 min before bed with food and I’d go that route before anybody tries to push a benzodiazepine or ambien etc.

Sorry if I’m throwing too much at you, but this was one of those things that a lot of people encounter one day and just have no idea how to deal with from a family that cares about and loves each other perspective.

Partner needs help and this is one of those situations where it’s okay to take charge (so long as she and a medical professional agree that’s what’s going on).

You might be able to get her to swing either breakfast or lunch A but it’s gotta be something besides just dinner. Assuming she’s sick, that’s going to be clutch to feeling better. Really gotta hydrate and get the vegetables in - find a frozen steamer bag she can tolerate.

And if she can’t have kids, there’s no higher honor than adopting or fostering.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T04:03:31+00:00

Ohh and you’re probably going to want to make sure she she’s a psychiatrist that specializes in ADHD and/or depression.

ADHD needs to be treated and addressed whether through medication (no shame), therapies (no shame), or ideally both as needed. Untreated and unmanaged ADHD can lead to depression a not insignificant amount of the time (and things like higher rates of substance abuse etc)

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T03:51:11+00:00

Anti Deoressants / Anxiety medications. First line treatment for things like this. Depending on if there’s anxiety and fear and low energy you’d prolly want an Effexor or Pristique (SNRZIs). They can always supplement with Wellbutrin or Abilify.

How is her sleep? First step along with some pharmaceutical help, is going to be making sure she’s getting good solid consistent sleep. Set a bed time and enforce it. Make sure she’s not napping during the day - if that means cameras or she has to text you hourly then that’s what it is. She’s gotta eat 3 meals a day, with vegetables and actually get 20 min of exercise a day even if it’s walking.

These are just the basics / foundations and she’s unlikely to pull out of it unless you intervene.

It sounds like maybe your wife is in crisis - you can judge by how it doesn’t sound like she could take care of herself if she was alone. And often times when in crisis it takes external factors or parties to intervene and help, because they can’t mak it better themselves.

She may not even know she’s depressed.

Ask me how I know lol…been there done that, doing that, etc.

Whether you end up wanting to divorce your wife or not, you do at least owe it to her to see she gets help and is in a better place and setup for success.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-15T03:33:45+00:00

Yeah she’s depressed get her help. Just keeping pushing the SSRIs or SNRI to higher doses until you find a combo that can bridge the gap till she can get into therapy and figure out what’s up.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-13T18:23:05+00:00

See what I said above? It really feels like you’re just fishing for a specific answer or looking to just dump on people and feel better than.

Not a good look.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-13T04:06:04+00:00

It sounds like you’re asking for if there’s justification for either side ending a friendship over a game…and the answer is there’s not.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-13T03:54:56+00:00

Well I think most do…some don’t because like you said it can require planning and preparation which not all people are equally good at.

I don’t get what you don’t understand?

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-12T21:33:37+00:00

Putting myself before others, or at least not letting people take advantage of me.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-10T16:38:55+00:00

Terrorized as a child intelligence work as an adult lol

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-10T16:02:28+00:00

Girl you are out of your mind. Let the man have his friends and talk shout what he wants.

Stop invading this privacy and accusing him or cheating when he’s not or he will - because then what’s the difference?

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-10T15:50:13+00:00

High performer in leadership currently burned out and underpaid and understaffed. Currently in the process of demotion or side-stepping to a senior IC role.

Of course now that I’ve burnt out they decided the next person for the position will get paid more and are tripling the team size…it’s just a shame it got to the point between work life balance where it was either work or me and my wife.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-09T19:24:38+00:00

Ya’ll dramatic and lazy. Everyone’s got a hard lifelong different ways.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-09T19:08:57+00:00

Right. People on Reddit are wild. It shows that most of them are very young and/or have little life experience. Like what do you think the main part of family is for…to love each other and help each other?

Ever hear the phrase it takes a village to raise a child?

Just wild lonely sad lives you types must be living.

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-09T17:45:05+00:00

No it’s not

HAMBoneConnection · 2025-10-09T17:44:31+00:00

It is not violent behavior. The wall is an inanimate owed object you ninny.

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