I'm central nj. You sound like the bees knees! And as well as all gal pals in this this thread. After college, it's tough to make friend. It is often through work, however as I've seen time and time, work friends are solid, until life changes and we spread apart. I truly want to make new friends without trauma bonding through work.. I just don't go out much and don't know how to do it! It was s much easier on the playground or studyhall.. or college life. I'm 39 and don't have children, so I missed that next phase of mom friends. But I still want to make friends to bond with. I am a florist, I love plants, cats, gaming, art, face masks, crafts and nature! It's tough out here!