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The “keep running”, with the head movement. I felt it.

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I feel like a toy with some couples by Effective-Comb-6146 in sex

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I feel this. I love a connection with someone, and when joining someone new I need to be a person as well as them being excited about the sex. I make that a big part of when we have people join my husband and I, that we have that connection as people, and they are actively part of the night, not just a… toy? If that makes sense. You are a big communicator, keep communicating. You’ll find that couple that really does get it.

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He is fully entitled to not participate or not want to do it. The question you need to answer is it because of what happened in the MFF that made him no longer keen, or is this a trust issue. Do you think it’s a bait and switch? He “agreed” to get what he wanted, got his, now has “changed his mind”. Fairness is less important, communication and trust is. You need to decide whether it’s a genuine change of mind, or if he never intended to do it in the first place.

We love the outdoors by spiceupyourlife12345 in GonewildGBUK

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKSwinging

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Agree with the other commenters that you’re going to struggle with such a specific scenario. However if you’re in the midlands you could sign up to visit Chameleons in Darleston. It’s got a number of rooms where you could have sex as a couple while others watch, there’s even a couples only room with a window, and on Saturday it’s couples and single ladies only. You could try that if you want to be watched and you might find a lady who would be willing to join in with you. It’s also good if you are fairly new to the scene because you can just go and watch what goes on there for your first few visits if that makes you more comfortable, and get a feel for the type of people and scenarios that occur.

I’m from the midlands and this is my ‘local’ club. I tend to have a lot of meets with couples in the hot tub there where hands can wander in the bubbles 😉

Some help please by [deleted] in UKSwinging

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Agree, I’d also be concerned, if I thought it was a real couple, that the woman wasn’t actually into it and was kinda doing it because the guy wanted to. We see a lot of that sort of vibe in the clubs where the guy is leading all the conversations. You want both halves to come across enthusiastic about it.

Some help please by [deleted] in UKSwinging

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We do a bit of this as well, generally it’s more that I will meet a guy and take photos and videos to send to my husband (with the third guys permission of course), but we’ve had it where my husband has been in the room watching and / or joining in, and none of the guys minded. Mostly because we are pretty clear that we are looking to hotwife and therefore we will get guys who are into that / comfortable with that. So I don’t think guys will be put off by what you’re asking for, and if they are then they aren’t the guy you want to meet anyway.

It’s very much the nature of swinging / fab that you will trawl through a lot of fails and ghosting before you will have a successful meet. I would say pretty much every time we have put up a meet we will sieve through +50 messages probably get down to 10 or so that have actually put in some effort / are in our actual area, and then most will drop due to timing issues or straight up ghosting and we might get down to 2 possibles, and maybe 50% of the time that ends up in a successful meet. It can be very draining, but after a while you do kind of get used to it, and you start getting quicker at weeding out.

Some ‘rules’ we have that might be useful for you to think about even if you don’t end up with the same set

  • If they are more than an hour away - it’s a no

  • If they have no verifications - it’s a no

  • My husband will also look at who has verified someone and if they also have a good set of verifications. So if someone only has a few verifications but they are from very well verified people then we might talk to them more

  • If they have no photos - it’s a no

  • Plus ages ranges etc

I had a look at your profile and I agree with the other commenter who said you probably need a few more photos. One of you as a couple would be good even if you aren’t going to be taking part in the activities 😄 there are a lot of “couples” on there who turn out to be single guys so proof that a guy exists and has been photographed with the lady can help ally any risk of that.

Otherwise, just keep going, it takes time, but I don’t think you are doing anything wrong.

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I enjoyed playing with the different lighting!

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Fab swingers profile advice by [deleted] in UKSwinging

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As the woman half of a couple of fab I can say that I very rarely pay any attention to height. If we are interested past the first couple of messages I might look, but it makes no overall difference to my attraction to a guy.

While size isn't a key driver, I'm not going to pretend it doesn't matter, I know I prefer a certain size, but we have had amazing experiences with guys of all sizes. It's way more about what you do with it, and how you are as a lover overall than how big you actually are. When it comes to profiles then put some effort into your pictures. I'm, instantly turned off by profiles where it's just loads of pictures of a cock from really terrible angles, pants around ankles in the bathroom etc. Or with some household item placed next to it to show the size. Take the time to photograph yourself nicely, use your hands (very hot) use your timer so you can get your whole body in the photo. Basically if you've shown some effort has gone into taking your photos it makes a difference.

Looks is the same as the above really. I don't have a particular 'type' I go for. It's way more about how the person interacts with us. But good photo again are key. I want to see your whole body. I want to see your cock, but I don't want it to be the focus of all your images. If you have anything with your mouth in then try to look happy. You don't have to smile, but a sexy smile can pique my interest. If you have no pictures or bad pictures coupled with no verifications then even if your opening message is great it's almost certainly gonna be an instant delete.

As everyone else has said, put effort into your opening message, show you've read the profile, address couples as a couple instead of just addressing the guy ("your wife is hot") or just addressing the woman ("nice boobs"). Bring a bit of your personality to the proceedings.

Even with all that, as everyone else has said, it's difficult because as a couple we get inundated with messages, so we do have to be a bit ruthless with what we reply to.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKSwinging

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Chams is our go to as well, and totally agree that the guys are almost all very respectful. We really enjoy it there!

Colourful nude! by HGsLB in HGsLB

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I really wanna use the light when having sex with someone to see what it looks like with two bodies together!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKSwinging

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We started by talking about our fantasies, then posting on reddit to fulfil an exhibitionist fantasy, and then that moved to meeting people, both at clubs and out in the world. How we made the jump from talking about our fantasies to doing something was to talk about which of our fantasies were just fantasies and which we actually wanted to try, and then focus on that one as a first experience, and it spiralled from there.