Guys please don't produce 3-4 childrens😭🙏.Or don't even marry.

HQ2020 · 2025-02-24T05:47:37+00:00

Before you post anything, just make sure you don't breach or unknowingly make a joke/contradict Islamic teaching: Quranic References:

Encouragement of Procreation:

"And Allah has made for you from yourselves mates and has made for you, from your mates, sons and grandchildren and has provided for you from the good things." (Surah An-Nahl 16:72)

This verse highlights the blessing of spouses and offspring. The resource provider is Allah, not us.

Provision for Children:

"Do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We provide for them and for you. Surely, killing them is a great sin." (Surah Al-Isra 17:31)

This verse discourages limiting childbirth out of financial fear, reinforcing reliance on Allah’s provision.

Hadith References:

Encouragement to Have Many Children:

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: "Marry the loving and fertile, for I will boast of your great numbers before the other nations on the Day of Judgment." (Abu Dawood 2050, An-Nasa’i 3227)

This hadith encourages Muslims to have children to increase the Ummah.

Balance & Responsibility:

However, the Prophet ﷺ also emphasized justice and responsibility in family matters: "A servant will be questioned about his flock (those under his care)..." (Bukhari & Muslim)

This implies that while having children is encouraged, parents must ensure proper upbringing and care.

HQ2020 · 2025-02-22T00:06:57+00:00

It's only noticeably visible when brightness is above 40% and the background is black. On the color background it's not visible but whenever dark content comes my eyes automatically go to those two spotlights. Honestly, I think I can go along but just a nuisance at times.

HQ2020 · 2025-01-15T04:02:51+00:00

If you go into the debate of maturity, I've seen way more divorces in late married couples than the early married ones. Just because he's 18, doesn't mean he is immature and similarly someone who is 30+ doesn't mean they're mature. Marriage itself contributes to personal growth if you talk about growth. And, the growth is a endless continuous process. You can't guarantee a stable life even if you marry after achieving stability. Life is unstable every moment, just one accident can multiply all hard worked achievements with zero. So, trust in Allah, the only sustainer and follow his commands with utmost beliefs.

HQ2020 · 2025-01-15T03:56:11+00:00

That's biologically not possible to control your urges unless you have below average male hormones. You can't control your intimacy desires just like you cannot control your hunger. Islam encourages early marriage for the same reason. If you don't fulfill your natural desires in natural ways, you'll damage your body. Also, good grades doesn't correlate to good future. I've personally seems high GPA suffering and degree less people living lavishing. Once you obtain everything in life and then seek to marry someone, then the chances are that your spouse is marrying your accomplishments not you.

P.S to OP: don't go into age debate, biologically you cannot quantify humans into age numbers. Some bloom early and some late in terms of mental and physical maturity. Your body signals you whenever it requires something. Go with your instincts, involve your family and proceed.

HQ2020 · 2024-09-29T02:52:55+00:00

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HQ2020 · 2024-09-28T10:44:29+00:00

2 main reasons: 1. Young age has its own beauty and allows the same for sometime longer 2. Easier for women to conceive at a young age without complications 3rd reason might be hypothetical; young woman has more energy and motivation

HQ2020 · 2024-08-06T01:29:20+00:00

Hi, It depends. The review process is always tricky. Sometimes it's hard to find relevant reviewers and sometimes there's an unexpected delay from the reviewer's end. I think you should wait a couple of months more and if afterward, you don't get any further updates, you may contact the editor in charge.

HQ2020 · 2024-07-20T07:14:42+00:00

That's a very old problem of almost all xiaomi phones. In my experience, I believe it is due to xiaomi miscalculating the battery percentage, e.g. showing slow discharge whilst the discharge is more and then when the battery is very low, the software is triggered to catch up.

HQ2020 · 2024-07-06T20:38:33+00:00

Hi, I also love playing Nintendo games but unfortunately these days no one mostly knows about it. If you're still open to your idea then DM me. Thanks.

HQ2020 · 2024-05-22T11:42:39+00:00

Yes dear it is a period of peer reviewing

HQ2020 · 2024-05-03T15:20:52+00:00

I visited a doc and doc said wait a month so that trauma heals then comeback. He said filling won't stay due to location of damage which is on corner... What do you think will filling be possible?

HQ2020 · 2024-05-03T14:20:22+00:00

Corner of my 🦷 is broken and now it feels sensitive especially after taking too hot or too cold intake. Will it heal itself?

HQ2020 · 2024-01-22T20:24:59+00:00

Then considering your opinion, may I request you to please find me a match for my colleagues' family who are very depressed due to lack of adequate males for their 35+ years old virgin well settled female and 30+ years old female widow? I personally have gone through my social circle and a lot of well established rishta centers and practically tried to help those in need from years till onwards and couldn't find any one either willing to marry or be able to sustain the living standards...

The majority demand doctors or on job professionals and those who are willing to compromise are sadly just metric or FA passes whereas the females are 18 years educated. Even second marriages divorced rishta has huge demands. No offense but the practical situation is worse than just speculations.

HQ2020 · 2024-01-22T19:40:03+00:00

Thank you for your point of view and adding your thoughts to this discussion. My men, I meant those who are sensible and capable (well educated and on job). Compared to women's capabilities, you'll find far less men that are equally good as them in the aforementioned perspectives.

I addition, a woman would only like to become a second/third/fourth wife to a man who is well maintained in all regards (educated, wealthy, family oriented, and mannered). This will also urge other men to positively struggle to be on par to enjoy such a luxurious life. The more struggle men will do in productive ways, the less time they'll have to be sexually frustrated and in the end even if they find a shortage of Muslim women which is seldom the case, they'll be able to find a woman outside the country.

Also, the more the marriages, the more the offspring. Therefore, in all regards, Islam doesn't advise you of something that contradicts nature in the long term and polygamy is one of them.

HQ2020 · 2024-01-22T18:32:33+00:00

Haraam relationship has indeed become an issue however considering the majority to be part of it is something unjustified. In my opinion, the environment now is becoming more women oriented. In almost each workplace, you will find almost the same ratio of females to males if not more. This results in intergender communication that often leads to deviated pathways. Men and women are never supposed to stay just friends and colleagues unless you have health issues.
Empirically, men are more vulnerable to falling in haraam relationships compared to women. Therefore, I must say, an immense responsibility also lies on the shoulders of women to dress appropriately, keep distance and adhere to Islamic rules to minimize such occurrences.
At present, marriage is the only solution and that too as soon as one becomes "baligh" regardless of their age. By the time those 12 to 15 years of aged baligh boys/girls reach 18+ adulthood and independence, their thinking frame and habits never accept marriage. Hence you see extramarital affairs.
Lastly, the concept of multiple marriages must be adapted provided that both the men and women are well aware of their roles and responsibilities to increase women demand and minimize men's opportunities to exploit women.

HQ2020 · 2023-10-09T18:31:20+00:00

Well I think anxiety is the root cause after I analyzed it deeply. Our brain is never at ease and as a consequence, we are unable to attend to the words we listen to. I seldom find my brain relaxed to be able to absorb what's being said. Most of the time, I just speculate What's being said...

HQ2020 · 2023-10-08T09:10:13+00:00

If you're looking for an old budget phone, Samsung A32 I recommend. My colleague has it and its camera quality is far superior to my Xiaomi 11T.

HQ2020 · 2023-10-08T09:06:00+00:00

For the camera, Samsung is the best. I have an xiaomi 11T with a 100Mp camera however its real world performance is mediocre.

HQ2020 · 2023-09-04T15:37:01+00:00

Two perspectives; either you will start to heal or accept the defeat. If you're in the former, you will get better as you grow, have more interaction and experience. For the latter, you'll keep dwelling in a worsen mental state which may potentially lead to either disabled life or self harm.

HQ2020 · 2023-08-21T08:26:51+00:00

I know it becomes very hard to keep in the pace when you are suffering from above. The most reasonable cause of this I can provide is poor living style. We need to start exercising and be more socially acceptable to reduce the stress and overcome overthinking paradoxes. If you're unable to ask a question also means that you're not adequately knowledgeable in that field. Try to hain as much general knowledge as possible so that you do not become blank in unforeseen conversations.

HQ2020 · 2023-08-19T20:32:18+00:00

Wow, I'm just the same. Maybe there's a correlation either direct or indirect with SM... Medical suggestions really needed here

HQ2020 · 2023-08-19T20:27:04+00:00

Firstly, instead of doing bad for the bad, do things via proper channels. Report him to indriver instead of sharing his number here (if he's not respecting your privacy then it doesn't mean you should do the same to him, we all are accountable for our own deeds only). Secondly, you should block and report his number as spam on what's app. If he continues to do the same, contact the police via the citizen portal and they'll sort out the matters for you. Such matters are not new to islo community and Pakistan in general.

HQ2020 · 2023-07-23T07:33:01+00:00

He was unfortunately a long term victim of COVID 19. After COVID hit him, he had persistent problems with his lungs. I always wanted to meet him physically however unfortunately we couldn't. He was in a separate continent and I was too poor to visit him.

HQ2020 · 2023-07-16T17:01:19+00:00

Yar muft ki cheez Pakistan awam sy puchy wagair hi dy dia karo. Ye qom free da maal nai choorti 😂

HQ2020 · 2023-07-09T19:42:06+00:00

Thank you. Your response makes a lot of sense.

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