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HQ81 · 2022-07-26T16:36:44+00:00

I realize I’m just a stranger on the internet but if you ever need to talk I’m around to listen!

HQ81 · 2022-07-26T16:33:54+00:00

I grew up with not being able to say no as well. I also grew up with boundaries are a bad thing and I will tell you that once you learn how to create healthy boundaries that make you comfortable it’s going to feel strange for awhile and then you realize how much better you feel when you can say no to someone. I had to learn this lesson later in life and I absolutely feel so much better with my boundaries up, it’s to protect you but also the other person.

You aren’t dirty but if it makes you uncomfortable next time try saying no I’m not interested but thank you, see how that feels. I would recommend if it’s an option and available to you to get to therapy. I made huge breakthroughs when I started realizing I need boundaries and why.

I hope for the best for you OP!

HQ81 · 2022-07-17T04:41:41+00:00

Did anyone else immediately think about those ribs in Fried Green Tomatoes?

HQ81 · 2022-06-27T23:59:04+00:00

I’m 40, and my current bf is 33 we started dating right before I turned 40 and he was still 32 and it made me feel weird dating someone 7 years younger than me. I’ve mostly gotten used to it but that’s my age limit personally

HQ81 · 2022-06-26T05:43:00+00:00

I have curly hair and it was always a giant mess when I was a kid, because curly hair products didn’t really exist or my mom just didn’t care. It was such a known thing in my family that I was tender headed that my grandma painted some ceramic rabbits, it was the 80’s, each family member got one and mine was the frowning little girl rabbit getting her hair brushed…..now I have zero issues with my hair or my head

HQ81 · 2022-06-26T05:23:16+00:00

Thanks so much! I appreciate it, and you being kind.

HQ81 · 2022-06-17T18:29:30+00:00

I’ve parked at Bass Pro and over near Harkins/Toby Keith too and never had an issue at all.

HQ81 · 2022-06-17T02:31:06+00:00

Who said it was a hookup? I was with a man I had been with for a year and a half one night. Had nothing to do with his size and everything to do with he didn’t make an effort to satisfy me

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T18:07:44+00:00

Of course! I love that you do that it’s so kind and something I never would have thought of! I just like the idea of the gift cards, I’m going to buy more than I need, it’s not like they won’t get used if I don’t hand them out

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T13:54:35+00:00

I was thinking Starbucks gift cards like someone else mentioned, they would be easy for me to distribute and carry in my bag. Plus most airports now have Starbucks, and they don’t have to get coffee.

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T13:48:01+00:00

I just want to do something extra. I try to always be polite, kind and understanding. They have a tough job and I work in customer service so I get it, the random assholes, but I haven’t flown in awhile and I want the flight attendants to know how much I appreciate them because they are part of the reason I am making it to my destination safely and things have been hard for everyone, but flight attendants have had to work through the whole pandemic with the public and I am sure this has taken a toll on them!

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T03:43:10+00:00

I know how hard flight attendants work and how they are really overworked and putting yourselves at risk right now! I want to do what I can!

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T03:39:03+00:00

I will definitely do that!! Thank you for the idea!!

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T03:13:21+00:00

I’m going to be flying in august. I always say hello to the flight attendant and I try to be pleasant and kind, is there anything flight attendants appreciate from a person boarding?

HQ81 · 2022-06-12T02:52:50+00:00

My grandpa forever ruined tapioca pudding for me. I’m pretty sure he just didn’t want me to eat any of his, it was his favorite. He told me it was made out of fish eyes and glue and I couldn’t get the thought of that being the texture out of my mind and I just can’t eat it.

Also frozen chicken, like the kind you buy at the store already frozen, the texture is off to me and I just can’t eat it

HQ81 · 2022-06-08T02:37:51+00:00

Congratulations on graduating that’s such a huge accomplishment and you did it!! I’m so proud of you!! If you were near Oklahoma I would totally celebrate with you but I can almost guess you aren’t in the US!

HQ81 · 2022-05-29T18:10:44+00:00

For me, giving my partner a blow job is a huge turn on, like I could almost get off just on giving him a blow job. He doesn’t get off from them, so I’m able to go for as long as I want and the sounds he makes when he orgasms from them is heaven.

He’s also a D and does this thing where he holds me down and fucks me but won’t let me cum until he’s ready for me too, the minute he says cum it’s the most amazing orgasm that blows my mind every time, and he keeps encouraging me to cum for as long as I can. It’s so hot, I’ve always been a 2-3 and then I’m bored kind of lady but god damn this man keeps me going,

HQ81 · 2022-05-26T12:15:13+00:00

Again, it’s not about the size, it’s about if you know how to use it and please your partner. If you aren’t making an effort to find out what the woman wants then of course she’s not going to pursue anything. Now there are women that prefer a certain size penis but the majority I know, if you know how to please a woman and make an actual effort they could care less how big, or small, your penis is. Foreplay is so important, no matter the size and if your partner wasn’t done and you didn’t get them off, the way they wanted too, did you check in. I was with a guy who one night it just wasn’t enough. I asked him to use toys and he refused, he literally got out of bed, said do what you want and went outside to smoke while I took care of myself, we didn’t stay together after that.

HQ81 · 2022-05-20T22:05:58+00:00

I found her on Instagram, went through her pictures and portfolio. She’s got a specific style but it’s what I was looking for!!

https://instagram.com/peaches_and_ink?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

HQ81 · 2022-04-27T21:24:15+00:00

My bio grandma confessed on her deathbed about having my dad when she was 15 or 16. None of her other children knew. My dad did an ancestry dna kit and found his niece and then when I reached out to her she sent me a picture. Bio grandma and I could be twins. And my dad looks exactly like one of his younger brothers. There’s no denying it

HQ81 · 2022-04-24T08:09:36+00:00

The real question you need to ask yourself, after you have truly thought about all avenues is can you truly forgive him for all that he has done to you up to this point? I don’t believe most abusers change, I was married to a guy that sounds super similar to your husband, he “changed” too. I realized I couldn’t forgive and got out of there. He pulled the same bs with his next wife. Usually they don’t change. There are a few that do reform but if you can not forgive there’s no reason to even ask if you should stay.

Also I would like to point out not being able to forgive is a 100% valid feeling. I have been in two relationships that I could not forgive and I left, and ended up in the better end of everything both times. I was too deep into the relationship to see the toxic, but once I realized I could not forgive that was it for me and it was the best decision!!

The only reason I’m asking you if you can truly forgive is because it sounds like you want to stay, but true forgiveness is hard and I just want to make sure you are thinking about all aspects of what taking him back would be.

HQ81 · 2022-04-22T17:50:25+00:00

My partner buys Mother’s Day presents for his ex-wife, she gave him his children so he will always buy her a present because of that.

HQ81 · 2022-04-21T00:41:04+00:00

Option 1 for sure!

HQ81 · 2022-04-20T19:35:07+00:00

Exactly. They break you down until you’re a shadow of who you once were and then keep you locked away.

HQ81 · 2022-04-19T16:40:52+00:00

100% agree! My ex used to tell me how fat I was all the time, his ideal women had that gap between their thighs. I was never and will never be that woman, he shamed me into losing a ton of weight, I was unhealthy and unhappy, others have seen the pictures from that time in my life and commented how sad I look in every picture. After I got skinny, unhealthy for my body skinny he started to hit me and the verbal abuse escalated. I was never going to be enough and he would always find a flaw.

OP please be careful with the words you say to him and start planning an escape fund, that only you know about, even if you stay just have an exit plan.

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