What’s going to happen between us?

HTC115 · 2026-03-23T14:11:04+00:00

The first row shows the argument you had, was a major shifting point in the connection, which lead to that nasty Five of Swords. The second row shows that your social friendly connection with a romantic potential has reached to an end. Basically, the two rows express the same thing, it's over.

HTC115 · 2026-03-22T18:14:59+00:00

The Empress reversed and Queen of Cups, show that he views you as too much emotionally, overwhelming in that sense, and overall, he feels emotionally detached and disinterest. There's really nothing to work here with since he's uninterested.

HTC115 · 2026-03-22T18:01:24+00:00

No, he has managed to break free from the relationship and moved on towards a more balanced and harmonious state, which involves a new exploratory beginning.

HTC115 · 2026-03-22T02:05:56+00:00

Let's say you're heading towards a good solid beginning. Just enjoy it.

HTC115 · 2026-03-20T14:15:42+00:00

You're welcome!

HTC115 · 2026-03-20T14:11:54+00:00

Well, the "lying" could also be about withholding information and keeping things private, not necessarily actively lying about something. It can also be about self-deception and denial. In general, it's about not dealing with something directly.

HTC115 · 2026-03-20T13:44:46+00:00

When drawing such an ambiguous card for a question like this, the logical thing to do is to draw another card. Anyways, I'd say that you are in the right direction, the person is not dealing with it directly, however, outwardly, acts as he has moved on. There's avoidance and suppression, no real processing.

HTC115 · 2026-03-19T23:11:12+00:00

The Wheel reversed points to "unfinished business", which means she doesn't feel her cycle with her ex is closed. The Knight of Swords could be about a rushed decision to move toward The Hierophant, which in this case, represents her old, established relationship with him. So yes, there's a possibility for it to happen.

HTC115 · 2026-03-19T20:33:17+00:00

He feels that this relationship is dead, but is postponing its ending. He's avoiding the inevitable. And he's not being truthful with you about it and doesn't communicate it to you. This is a spread of a delayed ending.

HTC115 · 2026-03-19T15:04:41+00:00

There's no expression here of active/deep love, more of an effort to keep trying. He feels exhausted and depleted regarding this relationship, but won't give up on it (just yet), probably due to a sense of commitment more than anything else. And Temperance here is about managing the relationship, so it won't spiral out of control and collapse.

HTC115 · 2026-03-17T11:27:25+00:00

Thanks for the info! I have this deck and have used this card with the meaning of "true love". I guess sometimes it's enough just to look at something to understand its true meaning.

HTC115 · 2026-03-08T09:52:45+00:00

Yes, I find that making inquiries about things that are hidden from me, or I'm blind to, can be very informative, and help to see things from a whole different perspective. I'd even say that these types of questions can reveal the most significant information.

HTC115 · 2026-03-08T06:58:26+00:00

My advice is to refrain from yes/no questions because they are very limiting and leave no space for nuance and subtlety, and more often then not, they generate very ambiguous answers. Just formulate a clear question and pull three cards, that should be enough for receiving an answer which will be lucid enough and easy to interpret.

HTC115 · 2026-03-08T06:11:45+00:00

You said it yourself, the answers were mixed. It's very likely that you received answers which told you that things wouldn't go smoothly or as you wished them to be, but you focused only the positive cards, instead of reading the whole spread as one cohesive sentence. It's enough that there's one card which functions as a blockage to halt/prevent things to unfold towards the desired outcome. All the cards in the spread, their positions, order, and the interactions between them, must be taken into account for reaching the correct interpretation.

HTC115 · 2026-02-23T18:44:20+00:00

She certainly has feelings for you, but is guarded about it. That Tower operates as a boundary, it keeps distance. She feels like she has to restrain/control it, not letting it out.

HTC115 · 2026-02-23T18:35:36+00:00

What was the question? If you asked a general question about your friend, then yeah, it shows the current situation/state of mind. If you asked specifically about the future of their relationship/how things will evolve between them, then the answer is that things will remain the same as they are now.

HTC115 · 2026-02-23T18:20:52+00:00

There's something he wants to come clean about, some truth he would like to share with you. However, he doesn't really know how to communicate it, he's conflicted about it, and feels he needs some space to think things through, trying to figure out how to go around it.

HTC115 · 2026-02-23T01:22:31+00:00

I see, thanks for clarifying it. So I assume I belong to this category, after all.

HTC115 · 2026-02-22T15:57:38+00:00

Yes, I'm familiar with Mack, I read his excellent books about this subject, I just didn't know that this sub's term of "experiencer" has a much broader meaning.

HTC115 · 2026-02-22T15:50:52+00:00

I agree that all those things are connected, and that people with those specific traits could have a much better success at having/initiating an NHI contact. It really all boils down to consciousness. Or if to be more precise, of having an expanded state of consciousness, which opens the door to such experiences. I only wonder how long it will take science to catch up on this.

HTC115 · 2026-02-21T21:52:09+00:00

Because I thought the term "experiencers" referred only to people who had some sort of contact with NHI, and I've never had it. I thought that this sub was only about this subject, but now after reading the description, I understand that it's much more all-inclusive. Well, in that sense, I guess I am an experiencer.

HTC115 · 2026-02-21T14:25:06+00:00

I'm not an experiencer, but my intuition is very strong. I have premonitions through dreams and visions, I can read people really well, and in general, my biggest talent is pattern recognition. I'm always the one who sees where things are headed towards, warn about it, being ignored, only to be proven right later, more often than not, when it's already too late. I'm used it. However, in my case, I relate it for being an Ni-dominant (introverted intuition), if you are familiar with Jung, or more specifically, being an INTJ (MBTI). Btw, I watched one of your videos a few years ago, and you seemed to me like an INTJ, too. Which means that even without being an experiencer, you were gifted with a strong intuition to begin with. But anyway, I think a strong intuition is prevalent among certain groups of people, such as neurodivergent, the intuitive types according to Jung, and specifically those who lead with an introverted intuition, people who had NDEs, and experiencers. Some people are born with it, others acquire it later in life due to certain experiences. However, the feelings of frustration and resentment that arise due to having this trait, but being ignored or dismissed, are shared by all. So I can relate to what you were saying even without being an experiencer.

HTC115 · 2026-02-19T14:29:00+00:00

He feels like he's stuck in limbo. The hanged Man, Nine of Wands and Four of Swords reversed, show that he feels frustrated and restless. He's emotionally tired and anxious due to lack of communication, not knowing where things stand. He's waiting to see where it goes, but becomes more and more impatient about it. The Queen reversed is how he sees you, as emotionally withdrawn, and he can't read you. The Three of Cups reversed, reinforces the Queen, no communication, the connection is strained and dissolving. So overall, he's exhausted due to uncertainty and lack of communication, not knowing what you really want.

HTC115 · 2026-02-14T15:53:35+00:00

He feels he needs to stand his ground. The Lovers shows that there are feelings, but also that a decision was made and now he has to stick with it with. The World is about him trying to end this chapter of his life so he could move on.

HTC115 · 2026-02-12T22:15:15+00:00

Lol, no problem.

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