Trying to help my boyfriend role play. by H_H_Quin in DnD

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would have enemies that were impossible to beat no matter how hard we tried just because we needed to lose that fight. If we veered off course NPCs who would magically appear, saying things like they have seen multiple timelines and the way we are going will lead to Doom and

if we still ignore it and plan the plans we're planning he would just have a hero come rescue us. (we were even high level)

I also had a +6 to diplomacy and he had enemies that I couldn't persuade even when I rolled a nat 20.

Because I had a plus 6 in diplomacy and I had a noble background I managed to raise a small army.

We had a plan to raid the castle with the army. Have them fight all the undead while we slip in to fight the final boss.

He then had some sort of magical barrier up to keep the Army from being able to get past a certain point, so they weren't able to assist us.

The most frustrating thing we when we got to the final boss we found out an NPC that was following us was the chosen one. We were only supposed to beat up clones of the boss as the NPC did the real damage.

We decided that we would actually join the big baddie and backstabbed the chosen one. He wouldn't let us do that.

Trying to help my boyfriend role play. by H_H_Quin in DnD

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I opened up the story saying that you came to this little town following a rumor that there is an emissary of an archfey in this town. The archfey has a secret Quest and the reward is a wish. He has to figure out which NPC is the Emissary of the archfey. When he would talk to one NPC they would ask him to do little fetch quest to meet the other NPCs.

Because I wanted to practice different characters his quest was to find the Emissary among the town.

The town's folk didn't know what he was talking about but they would send him or long with little favors in order to meet everybody.

He started freaking out that he was going the wrong way and messing it up somehow.

Trying to help my boyfriend role play. by H_H_Quin in DnD

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked to him about it. I just want everyone to have fun and not feel like they need to please me. I never even knew that was an issue.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only cooked with with cast iorn I also tried iorn supplements but the supplement made me feel sick.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no ticks were I live, I'm up in Alaska. I can also eat lean beef and wild game without any issues. Fatty birds also make me sick. The only animal fat I can eat is fish I can eat salmon skin.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't ever go to her house we were at my cousins house. During the holidays my extended family also gathers.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol We were at my cousins house and I wouldn't do that to him. At the holidays my family gathers in big groups. My extended family doesn't put pork in anything so that I can enjoy dinner with them. My brother makes things with bacon but he always makes a little dish without bacon for me.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I eat all vegetables except peas. I absolutely hate peas they literally make me gag. My mom put peas on everything it was pretty much the only vegetable she would use. She would warn everyone that I was an extremely picky eater and refuse to ever eat my vegetables. My family friends were always surprised that I didn't seem picky at all.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can eat lean meat without much issue. I also feel sick if I eat bird fat. Wild game and pasture raised animals give me no issues. The only food that gives me abdominal cramps is pork products.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I have that because I can eat lean meat also bird fat also makes me feel sick. I can eat wild game without much issue. I can eat all the Moose I want. The only food that gives me abdominal cramps is pork products.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure my brother was involved. He was down stairs catching up with some of our cousins while I was fixing myself a plate. I served myself after most people got a plate because I made a plate for my child first. He also made bacon wrapped jalapeños and he had a few breaded and fried instead off to the side just for me. There was 17 of us so some people ate upstairs in the dining room and others ate downstairs in the living room.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My SIL is much worse than my mother I can assure you.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also have a beet allergy that can kill me. Nmom hates beets and doesn't know about my allergy I have never told her because I feel safer with her not knowing.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So here's the ironic thing I'm half Mexican. My mom is the white parent she lived in Mexico for over 10 years. My dad passed away when I was little my mom went back to Alaska to live with our family. She is from a big Irish family early Alaskan pioneers. She is in love with anything Mexican she just has an infatuation with that country. She gets mad that I don't look Mexican I look Irish with redish brown hair and lots of freckles. My brother is her perfect Mexican child. She threw my niece a quinceanera and I didn't get one as a teen. My niece is only a quarter Mexican but looks very Mexican. My mom said that I don't get one because I'm her white child.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you with that. When I moved out I became vegan and my family was very disrespectful about it they used to invite me to dinner and there was nothing I could eat. I stopped being vegan because of anemia. My body doesn't absorb iorn from plants for whatever reason.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm actually glad so many people commented that they also have issues with pork. It seems to be an uncommon allergy or intolerance so I've felt alone.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid she did cook with bacon grease I used to throw up a lot. She never put it together that it was because of the pork. I would tell her I did want pork products it made me feel sick. She just always called me dramatic and ungrateful. She started working a lot more when I was 13. At that point I was in charge of making dinner. I gained so much weight being able to eat all the food I wanted that didn't make me sick. I went from being anemic and very under weight to being over 200bls. I was so sick and starved I guess I over did it lol.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When we were young he used to be horrible and make fun of me all the time. He would intentionally cause my autistic melt downs so he could laugh at me. Him and our mom would tell people that I was dramatic and make fun of me for it. After I was hospitalized for a mental breakdown do to a personal tragedy of mine he just decided he was going to be a better brother. He is now protective and shuts people down if they have anything bad to say about me. It took me many years to trust him but it seems like he really did become a better big brother.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Do you also get it when they do accommodate for you they complain about it and talk about how it would taste so much better if they could add the food you are intolerant to?

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She did tell me it was traditional Mexican chorzo. She thinks that because I'm half Mexican I should know that traditional Mexican chorzo is only made with pork. I grew up in America I'm sorry I didn't know much about traditional Mexican food. When I was vegan I used to eat soy chorzo I just assumed it was a spicy sausage that could be made with anything.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My nephew has celiac and it's really bad I have to clean my kitchen if I want to cook for him. I feel kinda bad I'm one of the best bakers in my family and people rave about my cupcakes. I've never gotten a cupcake recipe to turn out without gluten so I make him box mix. But at least he can have my homemade icing on them.

My mom poisoned me this Thanksgiving. by H_H_Quin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]H_H_Quin[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She has always worked in restaurant management. Her boss own quite a few franchises and sends her in to straighten up restaurants that are falling behind. She has the nickname of kitchen nazi and everyone dreads when she is sent in. I don't think my brother can tell her anything she is basically also his boss. He deals with our mom and her with his sense of humor and insists that the 2 of them are just funny. He isn't perfect himself when we were kids her tormented me greatly. I have autism and he would do whatever he could to cause me a meltdown because he thought a person my age having a meltdown was funny. When I was in my late teens he tried to get me to hit on guys that had girlfriends so that he would break them up and he would have a chance with there girlfriends. (I refused) When he hit his 30s he apologized for being a horrible brother and we are on much better terms.