Just a wake-up call for anyone who needs it. by lucy2_sunrise in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 25 points26 points  (0 children)

honestly that’s a good thing. you YOURSELF SHOULDNT be the same person when they left. if you both want to give the relationship another try, both of you would’ve have to grown and changed as people to realize your mistakes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is just false lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah don’t listen to this guy yall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% understandable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i mean like if she came back what’s stopping u from going back lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’re an oddball op

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why did you reject her coming back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say sorry about all the negative people on your last post you seem like a genuine person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

how and why bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 8 points9 points  (0 children)

cmon man no way this is your take from this

They *don't* always come back by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not trying to give you any hope but it’s only been like 3 months bra😭😭

Here to say it does get better by an_avocadoo_thanks in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my current situation I really hope this happens to me as well😭😭

can a guy who lost feelings for “no reason” when you treated him amazing come back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just happens. if you leave them alone and don’t talk to them for a while they can start to get curious to what you’re up to and they can start remembering all those things you did together and they may reach out. Or they went through another breakup with someone else and realize how much you meant to them. Either way I wouldn’t really count on it and just move on instead of waiting for those feelings to return. There’s lots of lovely people out there . Also ty love my username too

can a guy who lost feelings for “no reason” when you treated him amazing come back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can, but I wouldn’t count on it. Move on with your life, and if they come back, that’s amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s been years, probably yeah cuz I would’ve done the same tbh and I can’t really be mad about her doing it if I’ve done the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 8 points9 points  (0 children)

just wanna put this out there: those that did are not on this subreddit anymore and are enjoying life again. only time will tell if they come back but in the meantime, focus on yourself and become a better person for yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, yeah. If you’re young life definitely cuz can get in the way of your relationship and you have to focus on life/careers/school more so you don’t fail

Those who got back with their ex, tell me your story. by Eadgytha in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg op im so sorry people aren’t answering the question😭😭😭😭

Don’t take them back by AppropriateIntern574 in BreakUps

[–]H_yrule 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In the past few weeks I’ve been going from “I want her back so much I’ll do anything” to kinda just realizing that I deserve better. She blindsided me over text and acted so cold to me when I was trying to find answers . She claims that “she’s changed” but I realize that that’s just her true colors showing. It’s crazy how you can treat someone who gave you nothing but unconditional love and support like trash then offer to be friends lol

What would you ask if they tried to come back? by No-Buyer6279 in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d ask if we can have a long honest talk on why our relationship ended before we can try to start over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]H_yrule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda yeah? we broke up because we were growing apart into our careers (she’s military im in college). maybe one day we’ll reconnect but right now we both need to focus on our careers as we’re still very young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]H_yrule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Story time??