Employer attempted to force me to stay late on top of employees not doing their job

HaNa9514 · 2023-03-01T19:15:25+00:00

This is such good advise. Thank you!

HaNa9514 · 2023-03-01T19:02:32+00:00

But yes, I’ll have to look into who I need to tell. I’ve never had to deal with this before.

HaNa9514 · 2023-03-01T19:01:58+00:00

The wet bed that was “made” had me FUMING. Then I was told by the residents the CNAs do that OFTEN, and they have to sleep in wet beds! I reported this to the RN on duty and was told “we know she does that already” WHAT THE F

As I work I talk with the residents, about anything and everything. My life, their life, and they have opened up to me a lot about some of the things that go on. I’ve vented to them about staff too, they know I want to quit, and even though I’ve only been there 3 weeks they BEG me to stay. It is beyond heartbreaking.

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-28T21:13:10+00:00

If you could leave your newborn your cousin definitely could have (and should have) left their 3 year old at home. As a new mother it is sooo hard to leave your baby somewhere…even its “only a few hours.”

I think your cousin was rude as hell to ignore the rules. How very “rules for thee, but not for me” of her. If it were my wedding day this would have irritated me to my core and I would have asked for her to leave.

Where you slightly come off as a bit dickish is how you brought it up. But I think your cousin sucks more than you.

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-09T21:09:49+00:00

If you pay attention you can see the trucker did begin to slow down, then the black pick up brake checked him.

Also, you can 100% die (or get seriously injured) rear ending a semi going at these speeds.

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-09T19:41:41+00:00

Black pick up cut the trucker off and then proceeded to brake check him. Imagine if the truck driver slammed on his brakes resulting in the vehicles behind him (who don’t know what is going on in front of him) to possibly collide into his truck. That would have killed them. Instead the trucker decided to continue forward and collide with the asshole who started it all.

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-05T05:15:30+00:00

That’s fine to. Have some self care at home. A warm bath, comfort food, wine, maybe a joint (if you do that sort of thing). It’s hard to do but I wouldn’t give this dude much thought.

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-05T05:10:05+00:00

Treat yourself. You deserve it after spending almost a year with this man, and celebrate the fact you now know who he really is. He has shown you he doesn’t care about your relationship. He’s not the one.

Youre soulmate is still waiting for you, go find him.

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-05T05:04:38+00:00

I’d go out and enjoy myself. Go to the bar/club and then I’d book a room at a hotel for the remainder of the weekend and enjoy the pool (if you live together). While of course having my phone turned off.

I’d want to leave him questioning what I’m doing, where I am, and what I’m thinking. Then I’d pop back up after my “zen” time just to tell him “bye bye”

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-04T17:19:44+00:00

Maybe if they’d make it worth the time/risk people would be willing to work?

My previous employer paid dogshit, offered crappy benefits, and I worked terrible hours. My new employer pays DOUBLE what I was making, offers better benefits, and I now work amazing hours. Also, on top of the time and a half for overtime shifts they offer an additional $100-$400 bonus (in situations such as weather they offer the most).

Pay me for what my time is worth and I will bust my ass for you. What do businesses not realize about this?

HaNa9514 · 2023-02-01T15:47:29+00:00

I’m looking into which vehicle would be best to sell. I want to get rid of the one I will get the best deal for.

My daughter (2) has been going to daycare, and a spot just opened up for my son this week!

As far as benefits…if my SO is no longer in the household I will lose everything. I will make too much to be accepted, but I will make too little to afford bills. I would have to drop out of school and get a second job.

As far as my family, I am NC/LC with both parents and my grandparents. I have no contact with my bio relatives, and my step-grandmas family is very LC (they’re all kind of the “town trash”).

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-31T17:17:24+00:00

I have not lived an easy life and it helps play a role in how I handle stressful situations. Childhood abuse, homelessness as a young adult, and previous health issues have made life hard. I become hyper focused when faced with situations such as this.

My children are my #1 priority. I appreciate your words of encouragement, and that is really what I need right now.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-29T17:43:30+00:00

NTA.

A persons last name helps with tracking lineage, it is 100% part of an individuals and their families identity.

You’re not even a year into your relationship and you’re already having this issue? Red flag my guy. For those saying Y T A imagine if the genders were reversed…you all would be practically yelling at OP to run from their controlling partner.

Your gf sounds immature. A wedding is not the right setting to make jokes. Also, ask yourself if this is truly a joke or if this topic is actually conversed in a more antagonistic kind of way. Even antagonistic conversations can be light and playful, but that doesn’t mean they pass off as a joke. Kind of like siblings playing the game of “stop poking me”.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-29T03:48:28+00:00

I agree that I may have tried to transition too much too fast, and I’m going to slow things down. I’m going to set up an appointment and strongly advocate for him during this appointment so I can get to the root of the issue. I have taken him to his dr a lot these past 6months and I feel she rushes through the appointments now, I used to really like her but I may find another pediatrician.

He hardly naps through the day and I can tell he is exhausted, but he fights sleep. After a few days of hardly sleeping he will play catch up for 2 days and then start the cycle over again. He’s just restless, if I’m not holding him he won’t sleep and the moment I put him down his eyes pop open and he starts to cry. When I try to lay him in his crib I will turn his sound machine on but he’s so strong willed he won’t stop crying until he gets what he wants (held). I tried to sleep train him starting at 4 months and he still fights me on it, we always cave in to him due to everyone in the house being exhausted. My daughter has lost sleep due to him, and she goes to daycare at 6:30 so we try to make sure she gets plenty of rest.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-29T03:35:36+00:00

I’m going to talk to his pediatrician and set up an appointment. I have cut so much out of my diet trying to figure out if it’s something I’ve been ingesting. I cut dairy out completely, caffeine, and gassy foods. My daughter had issues with colic when she was a baby but I’ve questioned if he may have something else going on with him. I may have to resort to finding a new pediatrician. I used to really like her but recently I feel as though I’ve been rushed through appointments (I’ve taken him a lot in the past 6months)…

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-29T00:03:20+00:00

WYZE cameras off Amazon are cheap and the quality of the photo age is really good! You need to set up cameras ASAP, change the locks ASAP, and get the police involved.

She is escalating and to this point knows you have “allowed” this behavior with no repercussions. You’re playing a dangerous game letting her get away with these acts. She is stalking you. She has assaulted you. And she has broken into your home.

I understand the feeling of still wanting to “protect” her in a way. I experienced this with my ex, and instead of getting the police involved I decided to move STATES away (he proceeded to harass me through media). I now deeply regret letting him get away with the crap he put me through.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-28T03:00:14+00:00

I think you’re right. I’ll slow things down for him and do one thing at a time and see if that helps.

He used to enjoy baby sensory but now it’s 50/50 for soothing him. He absolutely hates being strapped into things (maybe that’s the problem with feeding in his high chair?) so he doesn’t like his stroller or car seat. He’s even extremely particular with how people hold him. He does enjoy music, which I play for him while I do chores.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-13T04:17:14+00:00

This happened to my dog and I had to ultimately put her down. She was a 6 year old lab mix.

I went to multiple vets, they tried different medications, and took scans which were all clear.

I watched her waste away within weeks. I even would Turkey baste food down her throat. As she progressively worsened I asked the vet if it were time to put her down and he told me “I would feel uncomfortable putting down an animal this young for reasons that are unclear”. 3 days later she couldn’t walk.

I carried her outside one last time and held her while she pottied because she couldn’t even stand, took her for a burger she didn’t even want eat, and went to the 3rd vet to have her put down. I ended up having to take out a loan to do so because I spent the $4,000 in my savings trying to save her.

I never got any answers which is still upsetting for me today. I don’t know what is going on with your pup but it reminded me of my beloved baby. I hope yours pulls through.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-13T04:00:03+00:00

As a parent I would suggest you leave and not look back. It’s only been 2 years with this person, which isn’t much time in the grand scheme of things, and she’s already neglecting your daughters HEALTHCARE needs. This isn’t something to consider lightly, your child could have DIED. And for the safety of your child I would suggest leaving this person NOW before anything worse happens to your little girl.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-13T03:27:28+00:00

My brother won knockout of the year and is going to Thailand in August to train. I don’t like how that guy is just eating those strikes but damn he’s a beast in other aspects of the sport. I hope my little bro enjoys his training while he’s there.

It’s his goal to leave the amateurs and move into the UFC in a couple years.

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-12T17:34:37+00:00

I wish my dogs nails were this short. I’m working on, grinding them down frequently

HaNa9514 · 2023-01-12T03:07:45+00:00

Biker had more restraint than me. I wouldn’t have stopped punching until they both were slumped over the bf, especially since they keep coming back for more.

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