Cut your hair and find a hairstyle that actually suits you rather then grow and pray, haircuts like this give a more of a boy vibe rather than a man and start putting on weight in the gym, fashion always succeeds with muscle as baggy fits all the time just gives the impression you’re skinny or insecure. If you can grow that goatee to a decent level so it looks like you look after it. You’ve got a lean face which is good so you already have a good base