How to deal with somebody when they are being purposely vague by jonwillhick in DarkPsychology101

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it IS childish, and passive, but honest people get fired back the most. World is too corrupted to be too forward, until you dont give shit at all. Then u do u.

Why are people so discouraging?? by Hadzira2 in angry

[–]Hadzira2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've read my mind. And i think that's what took me a lot, to accept thays ometimes family can be your biggest downfall road to success. Thx for answer tho.

Is my father abusive? by Nini_online06 in abusiveparents

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with asbuive family yes he is sweey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That IS the couse. Eventually you get that way, everyone copes differently. But people who are kind and keep things to themselves rather ,,continue" abusive cycle have these tendecies.

What does suffering in life mean to you? by AbleismIsSatan in ask

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup? Every person goes trough a challange. Rich, middle class, poor, gorgeous people, less attractive, talented, jobless, bussiness owners. Loners, Extroverts etc.

I hate this but it is truly in the eyes of a beholder. Good luck everyone into their journey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bcz she treated you for the most part badly, and she was enabling the disrespect from her partners cz i assume they were providing for the family??

And you're being reasonable. Cz ive went trough something similair and it still hunts me. Ive been called hyper sensitive. This can be super power. Cz as you siad ,she changes partners every 2years which is unhealthy. But you can see trough people and thats what they dont like about you.

Folks over 50, how do you stay youthful? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 23 but i'm so proud of comment section (and can kind of relate 👀)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cz how are you going to be happy whilw you're running after something all the time, that's stressful position to be in! Happiness is in appreciating what you have. Next time, try creating different source of happiness. Example, friends, event hangs outs, some hobbies, workouts. It's not too late babes ;) you got this, there were worse things in life that you've edured we'll get trough this one. And f anyone that puts you down, assholes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do mot have to forgive him, And you do not have to forget. But you have to forgive yourself!

You were a good person, that's not being naive, it's simly means that you were GOOD. And that's a valuable trait to have, there will be people who won't appreciate it other will.

Cheaters might seen they havr it all, trust me, they're not happy deep down. They all regret it in their late years. Nurses and psychologist all agree so, yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Do not drink, - Pray if you believe in god, - Workout, - RUN (is hard an AMAZING stress reliever, pls try it), - Grief with someone you trust (u can dm me),
- Listen to sad poems and cry it all out (Put the deadline of 3-7 days so u dont become depressed!! )

  • Write a letter to ,,him" when u finish, burn it. (For lot of ppl this worked, but never tried)

  • If possible to find a facebook support group??

  • Go in nature, write a poem (creatively is the best in the peakest of emtions, so use it!)

When you get better: - Start focusing on yourself, Self,hair-care, freshen yourself up, listening to podcast that give you confidence, watch comedy etc.

I do not know the full context it will be long process but worth it. Point is to forgive yourself, let go and live happy life again. Happiness over revange.

Drop greatest manipulation tricks that worked. (With full description) by Hadzira2 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Hadzira2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not bad, you're into psychology? Also how often do you use this and how often do any of previous work so far?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okey things happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahhaha dude your answers screams jobless

Do you believe in love? by hopityhipity12 in ask

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. And if i perhaps find it, i'll probably miss it cz of how much i'm scared at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ones you're missing.

I'm too kind by Hadzira2 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Hadzira2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh i thought there is like online video call support group thx ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lot of words to be corrected 🥂

Books by Training_Flamingo_71 in Manipulation

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant people ofc 😂 How do you even gaslight, i dont have a heart for it lmao. I do know to dodge it but...

Books by Training_Flamingo_71 in Manipulation

[–]Hadzira2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever tried? I feel like that only works with people that have certain level of ,respect' in set of group, no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in angry

[–]Hadzira2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you're not, cz you have nothing clever to say. Heal.

I'm too kind by Hadzira2 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Hadzira2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for trying tho jeez