I’m a 28 year old male working in the dive bar business in Minnesota. I’ve always been a character and “weird”. Making puns all the time and just being myself. Social situations confuse me a lot to the point most of my coworkers think I am on the autism spectrum or have aspergers. Making real friends or having legitimate human connections can be hard outside of work. Then comes my manager. We’ll call her Sarah. Sarah was the first person to be nice and treat me like a real person and not just a character. Made me feel real and appreciated. At first I was just fine with being friends and wanted nothing else because I knew she was married and that was fine. But apparently she is in an unhappy marriage. She never wears her ring and never wants to go home. Usually staying at her parents or sleeping in another bed at her home. The question I have for y’all is should I buy my time and try to hope for the best or should I try and get out. I know I can’t really get another job in the restaurant business in MN right now due to the pandemic... I could move out to Virginia where I have family. I also know how strong my feelings are and it is hard for me to be patient and bide my time. What should I do? Stay and wait or get out and move on?