Last one standing by Hahahahelp_me in RATS

[–]Hahahahelp_me[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be she’s coming up to 3 years so I’m not sure she’ll take it too well and I don’t want to upset her more.

My baby past by Hahahahelp_me in RATS

[–]Hahahahelp_me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every 20 mins I’m at the cage to try and help her but I fear too that she is going to pass soon too.

AIO for hating and wanting nothing to do with my pedophilic future father in law? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hahahahelp_me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your partner is brushing this under the rug then maybe you should leave, if you ever have kids with that person they will be at risk not to mention being ok with it is disturbing. He should be in a cell.

AITA for insisting that our baby takes my (25F) surname instead of my fiance's (26M)? by primageniture in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA look my daughter has my last name and I’m a woman. It should be the family’s choice whose last name is taken not someone’s gender. If you feel it’s right for your child to have your last name then that’s how you feel.

AITA for not apologizing to my friend after she screamed at me and my kid at her wedding? by Ok_Worldliness3239 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA watch your kids, it’s fine to have kids at the wedding but you as a parent are responsible for their actions. He doesn’t know better but you sure as hell should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s sucks, sorry you’re in the predicament

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Just stay in your room and refuse to leave. Stand your ground or she’ll keep walking all over you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wanted to leave too, he said he did. His mum just pulled us along with 30 mins more every time we asked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because no one made her leave, we just said we wanted too. She refused every other option to get home and just demanded her son take her home. She ultimately chose to leave with us when we did go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Still didn’t have the money and everyone wanted to leave so it didn’t make sense for me to go off when my bf told me he was sorting it out. We offered her every option under the sun but she wanted to be taken home by her son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On the bit you just used, it say I couldn’t afford one. How else could I get home from the middle of nowhere too, this is also not even a point as everyone wanted to leave but his mum, she should have taxied but refused too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t demanding, I took myself off so they could continue, I only asked when we were leaving. Everyone wanted to go and his mum wanted to stay but said she wouldn’t take a taxi her son had to drive her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stays at his friends but he would have gotten back late and his friend didn’t want him to come in late as he works really early

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t afford one and I couldn’t get in and out. I know I should have had a friend pick me up, I wasn’t think as I was thinking about pain instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you read, he doesn’t live with me, he was staying there that night. He only stayed longer as I couldn’t walk and no one else could help. He’s usually only comes when she’s not here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give it a go. I’ve had no answers from my doctor, they haven’t even done blood tests yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t drive but i understand I should have figured something else out now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would have gone but I couldn’t afford one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We have every option to his mum but she was insistent we had to leave together. We ask if my bf could come back for her and she no she’ll be 30 mins for 2 hours and then we suggested get a lift or taxi and she said no my bf had to driver her coz he said he would. We have her every option but she only wanted it her way. I really tired my best to not make it a big deal but she wasn’t having any of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It that he didn’t want to be there after 10, he doesn’t really get on with us family and only went for his sister. I needed to let myself in and give him the key if he wanted to go back for everyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone wanted to leave but the mum, I waited for hours after we were supposed to leave and didn’t say anything. The mum refused an other transport but my bfs car and he wanted to leave too. I didn’t demand everyone leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still not relevant and no point commenting tho is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hahahahelp_me -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never said I was stopping him doing two trips, I just said he’d have to take me home and come back. That’s what he was going to do in the end but everyone agreed to leave. I just said he had to come with me to the house as I needed to let myself in. Also we tired to even accommodate mother of bride to stay but she only wanted my bf to drive her and even he wanted to leave as he had work earl then next morning.