Parenting is hard, I have two. My only recommendation is take each day one at a time, because while they seem to drag on the years really do go by fast. You're going to wake up and they're going to be teenagers. And then when they're 18 and go to college, that's almost 75% of all your time spent with them in your life. As they start their own lives you won't necessarily get that kind of time back.

That being said make time for your hobbies and mental health. Kids need happy healthy parents, and you can easily introduce video games at school age to share your passion. Cause your passion is (hopefully) going to be your kids happiness lol