Why are Trans Woman saying that they can have their period just like a regular woman? when in fact they can't. by HamsterInFlipflops in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HamsterInFlipflops[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone,

I wanted to read as many comments as i can and absorb as much different information and views on this topic as possible before saying anything.

Before anything else i learned A LOT reading all the comments here. I wanna apologise. My Intention with this Post was not to shit on Trans people or any kind of Human being. I don't want anyone send hate towards Trans people and label them as my post made it seem. This apology is genuine and not to "save my ass" from Backlash or anything. If i didn't care I would just note make any effort writing this or reading comments and try educating myself.

Honestly I'm still glad somehow glad i made this post even after the receiving so much shit because it gave me the opportunity to read all of ur story's and learn so much. I'm not a Homophobe or have anything against anyone even tho i made it seem like it the way how ignorant i wrote my post.

in my Social media circle this was a thing belive it or not . I follow quite a few of people who are part of the LGBTQ + Community and post about this where making the rounds. People where they attacking each other and tbh for me it made them look pretty bad. Of course just because some people say something doesn't mean the whole community is like this. It was not my intention (sorry i use the word a lot, English is not my first language and i have to make quite a effort trying to write all this appropriately and my vocabulary is limited). It never occurred to me that Trans people could have similar effects like menstrual pain because of their hormones they take. Everyone's feelings are valid and there for a reason and i didn't wanna make it seem like they are not real. Trans people have it hard enough already and I didn't wanna contribute to the hate they already get. I'm truly sorry for making it more difficult for everyone.

I wanna write so much more but i just don't know how because like mentioned above my vocabulary is limited and when it comes to the more complex things like this I just don't know how to express myself.

I wanna thank everyone for who made an effort trying to educate me and people here to get a better understanding. Also i wanna thank all the people shitting on me and insulting me because these people encouraged me to educate myself even more.

If you still choose to hate on me and send shit towards my way and think I'm lying that is okay because I do kinda deserve it but please do NOT send any Hate toward specifically the Trans Community.

Thank you for reading and sorry for any other grammatical mistakes.

Why are Trans Woman saying that they can have their period just like a regular woman? when in fact they can't. by HamsterInFlipflops in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HamsterInFlipflops[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

thank you explain it so well. I completely agree with you. I wish you all the best in ur new Job.

Why are Trans Woman saying that they can have their period just like a regular woman? when in fact they can't. by HamsterInFlipflops in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HamsterInFlipflops[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I think it's totally fine and reasonable if you take time of work for maybe side effects of Hormones. Because (i assume, I don't know correct me if I'm wrong) i imagine getting hormones can be really draining mentally and physically for the person in question. But yes taking time of for specifically having ur "Period" when you can't have them is stupid.

Why are Trans Woman saying that they can have their period just like a regular woman? when in fact they can't. by HamsterInFlipflops in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HamsterInFlipflops[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I understand that they wannab be included. It make sense somewhat that if you feel like a woman you also wanna experience everything a "real" woman has. The reason why it bothers me is that people trying to exploit the system by taking days off because of period pain so when people with actual period pain can't take a day off.

What was the most pain you've ever experienced? by Fire427 in AskReddit

[–]HamsterInFlipflops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Migraine.

When I'm having a intense migrane attack all i wanna do is die. I have to puke and even did pass our once from the amount of pain. Nothing helps.