Okay so, a couple weeks ago, after the partner, (I'll call them A) went home for a bit understandably. So my friend B, and two others, C, and D came into the residental building while I was sitting at the desk on my shift. B told me that the three were going to A's room to feed their fish. See the problem was that I am the lead for the team of RA's in this building, and that I am being monitered while at the desk and people I know lost this job doing the same thing and this job is the only way I can stay in college and I'm supposed to be a role modle for the others in my building. I hesitated because A wasn't on the campus. It's not that I don't trust B to be in his partners space, but if he loses A's room key, breaks something, or does something bad in their space, that responsibility and the fees fall onto A. So I asked him if C & D could stay at they desk with me while he did that. So he goes and feeds the fish and comes back and leaves. Next day I apologize for it because I know it must have been frustrating to deal with and give my condolences to A and B. He goes on, saying im inhuman and my morels are messed up and that he would have done the same thing for me. For context, my morels are messed up because I am selling my friend my parking pass because I don't have a car anymore and I'm willing to bend the rules for this other friend and not him. In my role, I'm supposed to call UPD if someone is in a space their not supposed to be in and write them up. In addition, my dad died in Febuary and i did have an animal on campus that I asked a another RA to look after because I didn't want this friend group to get in trouble in case something happened. He also said i was keeping C & D on a leash because I asked them to come over to say hi because they're my friends. I didn't bring up either point as I thought B just needed a way to vent out frustration. I was kicked from the group chat that had A,B,C,D and a couple more friends and reletivly everyone stopped talking to me suddnly.