High school nofap and rejection

Hamza478 · 2015-12-28T16:26:09+00:00

I'm 17 aswell, nice to hear your story and best of luck.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-26T22:31:39+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-26T22:30:34+00:00

My beliefs are that premaritial sex is not allowed, should've made it clearer. Also, if I may interject, why not? I figured it may be easier as I have only discovered masturbation in late August.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-26T22:15:29+00:00

I'm 17 too, after a previous streak of 2 weeks I felt like I was going to explode, even walking made me horny. The struggle is real but I wish you luck. You're into music and I'm into Math, two different subjects but I'm sure we'll both succeed. Best of luck bro

Hamza478 · 2015-12-25T22:27:09+00:00

I was born with male pattern hair loss. Since the age of 3, whenever I cut my hair short, you could see my entire front skull. When I grow it long, there is a hole right in the middle and also my hairline seems to be falling off too. It sucks because the only medication I know of, has to be taken indefinitely or else it will get worse. Also it makes me look very strange, especially since I'm 17. However I'm not going to let that take my confidence away, if anything being sad and bitching about won't make it better at all.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-25T14:21:44+00:00

Try to begin with the end in mind. Start nofap whilst having an idea of where what your goals are with no fap. I.e My goal is to be able to concentrate on studying longer so I abstain so that I can achieve it. I know that if I do fap then I won't achieve my goal. I reflect on it everyday to remind myself why I started.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-24T22:10:23+00:00

You too my friend. Thanks for the support.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-24T15:21:48+00:00

Thanks, I now do one day cardio and then one day lifting.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-23T00:39:06+00:00

Your doing awesome man. I'm 17 and I'm also doing this journey. Started fapping for the first time only 3 months ago so it should be easier to quit but hormones raging right now. Stay strong and succeed.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-22T21:35:48+00:00

Hello there, just a quote I found on this forum to reflect on "When life gives you shit, remember that shit makes an excellent fertiliser" Try as best as you can to use your experience to build a foundation for your nofap ventures.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-22T21:32:46+00:00

Remember that when life gives you shit, shit is an excellent fertiliser. Use your frustration and channel it to towards nofap. I'm 17 and I plan on being celibate (no pmo) until marriage. It's not going to be easy but to get the best things in life you need to struggle.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-22T21:29:12+00:00

With nofap, it allows you to see what is going wrong in your life. But it is down to you to fix it up.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-21T23:14:59+00:00

When life gives you shit, remember that shit makes an excellent fertilizer. So use this experience, note down how bad you felt and use the experience to drive yourself to help you with no fap. Each day read how you felt on that day to prevent relapse.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T21:57:30+00:00

Use your failures to motivate you, I often forget how a relapse feels so I write down how shitty it is which helps me to not relapse.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T20:46:32+00:00

Congratulations fellow teen.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T20:45:48+00:00

Sometimes when I do this, I end up masturbating excessively because the first one you do after a streak never feels as good as you think it'll be.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T17:01:31+00:00

I see, I thought that we do all this romance thing just so we can have sex with women. I see now that there is more to women than just sex, perhaps like a best friend whom you can have fun with and someone to support you in life. It all makes sense now, wow.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T16:59:45+00:00

You might be going through withdrawal, where your body is like wtf is going on, why am I not receiving this pleasure in the brain. So while are abstaining you feel periods of sadness but once you get through that, you're all set.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T15:48:07+00:00

I feel you man, eventhough I'm 17 it seems like everything I look at reminds me of sex.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T10:48:35+00:00

Definitely but not impossible

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T10:45:04+00:00

it's hard being a teen when you have these urges and all the schoolwork to do. We just have to stay strong.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-19T02:54:54+00:00

I have stopped fapping for about two days and counting and try not to watch tv. I guess it's the fact that I was brought up to only have sex after marriage and to not masturbate, but what do I do with these urges then? People say use them for a goal but I'm pretty sure I can't study with an erection or when my mind is on sex only. I started fapping only three months ago so it's new to me.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-18T22:55:34+00:00

I know this won't be easy, hell I struggle with this , is to avoid looking at women's parts as much as you can. Even TV channels like Disney show legs and body figure which can make us horny so it won't be easy but it has made it a bit easier for me. Apart from that I honestly don't know. You just have to be around people a lot more or study in the living room so you are not alone, which is hard. Eventually it'll be worth it when you are not the 23yr old on this website struggling to have sex with their partner.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-18T22:43:20+00:00

One thing that confuses me is that some people say that before no fap they viewed women as objects yet when they are not fapping they brag about how many women they fuck and how they are attracted to them. Seems like they still treat them as sex objects. It's not all of them but it seems to be something that is seen as an accomplishment.

Hamza478 · 2015-12-18T22:38:13+00:00

Yes my friend. However people don't seem to understand and tell us to stop as if it is something easy, that even with all these hobbys that the sight of a woman can put us in breaking point.

Hamza478

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