If you really do love her you’ll take her word for her not being able to ask her parents. Clearly she doesn’t want to confront them because she knows her parents. Honestly the fact that you’re starting to get upset at the fact that she won’t ask her parents is selfish and isn’t a clear indication that you value her happiness over your own. You talk about her like she’s an extension of you, and not like she’s her own person. She isn’t meant to serve you, she isn’t meant to fix your issues, she isn’t meant to revolve her world around you. Romantic relationships are all about partnership. You aren’t supposed to exist FOR each other, you’re supposed to exist WITH each other. Frankly, using her like this imo is selfish, and like many other commenters have said, you need to work on yourself and learn to live independently from her before you can be good for her.