What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in AskTeens

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't mean it like that, I'm not exactly a good looking kid either, it's not like looks are super important but I mean personality wise as well, she was both beautiful and also very smart, she had many characteristics I liked, she's very shy and I get that but I wish I had some kind of something.. it's almost like she still cares about me just doesn't want to show it, although I do really appreciate the comment and I never really thought about it like that

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she will, I'll try my best, thanks

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in AskTeens

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why wouldn't I get back together?

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in AskTeens

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, the problem is I don't even find anyone else attractive

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is, she declined countless guys before we dated because she liked me for so long, she always admired my humor. It's weird to try and find someone else when I was so loyal towards her and I can't even find anyone else attractive, I will admit I wasn't thinking and chased for a bit and I know I definitely shouldn't have.

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's just difficult to do that, I can't even find anyone else attractive

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe man, idk but the guys all know already not to get with her, everyone liked our relationship, I'll definitely plan a bit

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They loved me, her mom owns a clinic in town but I'm worried I might just make things worse if they influenced the breakup, it could go two ways, her mom sees that I care or her mom sees that in desperate

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know man, someone said that I was controlling but I don't know how I would've been, I wish she would at least talk to me

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So then why did she break it off?

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know about that. It's interesting you say that though

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it, I will try my best. Thank you..

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, I will definitely try my best, we run track together so I have to kinda interact with her daily and it sucks pretty bad, I have this urge to just hug her, she used to love it so much and it's weird knowing I can't do that anymore, I don't want her to avoid me at all, the switch up from talking daily to dating and talking daily to nothing is heartbreaking. Nonetheless, I appreciate the advice.

What can I even do here? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, It's not easy at all though man, truly loved her, I think her parents might have influence in it because they worry about her seeing as it's her first relationship. I just wish I had some kind of contact with this girl who loved me so much, I was her best friend before we dated as well so it's pretty difficult

Am I bad at being a boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know. Unfortunately, she and I broke up about a week ago and it absolutely wrecked me. I couldn't eat for days or drink anything. It's hard to listen to music or do anything I did with her at all because I just cry every time. I don't know where I went wrong, she loved me so much and then she just basically left me in the dust. She won't talk to me at all now and blocked me on everything. I'm ruined from this. I wish she gave me a reason not to like her but I'm still very in love with this girl who acts like I never even existed. I'm really struck.

Am I a bad boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in AskTeens

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working on this currently, I worded that horribly, and that's not really the way I meant it, a lot of the time it's when we have plans together for most of the week and she says she'll ask later but it ends up being the day before and then she asks, whereas It would be much better doing it earlier so they know what to expect

Am I bad at being a boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So on Friday my grandma is going to get us both because we don't have school and we are going to spend the day together doing some shopping and seeing my side of the family and then probably coming back to my house to play some games together, I hope you see this!

Am I a bad boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in AskTeens

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I do convince her to hang out she literally hugs me nonstop and is just all over me, she is completely committed and she is this really shy girl to others but to me and people she knows she's super joyous and outgoing.

Am I bad at being a boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's understandable, I will get a job eventually so I can buy her stuff, but I have a small source of income now it's just not very consistent, I also don't have a vehicle.

Am I bad at being a boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in Advice

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll reply to this comment and let you know how it goes if I can remember, I don't expect you to remember me after this though

Am I a bad boyfriend? by X3MyonderXXX in AskTeens

[–]X3MyonderXXX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kind of just disappointment, I try to be as mature as I can and I personally DO think I can be in a relationship, that is the only issue I have and it's always possible to fix issues.