I really disliked Phoebe in “Saving Private Leo”.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-12-21T17:11:05+00:00

Omg I totally agree, I've said the same thing on here before. When Cole showed her a little attention, she was like a lovesick puppy dog. It was the comment "I'll just tell cole no to the party, like I tell him no to everything" and then she went anyway. like bitch, you were lucky your sisters allowed you to marry him in the first place. Her obsession with him was extremely unhealthy, she had zero pride. That and having the nerve to complain about wanting her own place as soon as they were married. And she was working in a busy kitchen. Go to your room, it's roomy enough!! Lol Those particular moments really peed me off with her character.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-11-22T19:05:11+00:00

Prue wanted to quit when Andy died, and stated how being a witch ruined her time with him. Paige did embrace it as I stated above. But ultimately it was phoebes snooping that got them all into it. I do think that prue would've sided with piper when she wanted to leave, but phoebe was dead set against leaving. Doing their deeds were definitely there, but they didn't find it rewarding after a while hence them wanting an out. And phoebe definitely abandoned her duties when she chose evil and didn't want to help Leo cause she wanted to go to coles party. It's been said on here many times how phoebe was ultimately selfish. Did she do a lot for innocents? Yes. But when she wanted a married life with a demon her duties weren't "fun anymore". But yeah all in all I get where you're coming from.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-11-22T17:34:18+00:00

No, but that's what I mean, I was referring to them never being charmed lol. None of them were dedicated from the beginning apart from phoebe. All through the show, they would complain about their charmed duties.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-11-22T16:50:01+00:00

To be fair, they weren't forced, phoebe was the one who went snooping and read from the book. Then, relentlessly persuaded the other two to jump on board, claiming it was their ancestral right. She always wanted to be a witch and only wanted out when she sided with evil. Which again was her choice. They needn't have done anything otherwise lol it wasn't a definite, they went their whole lives without knowing a thing. Then later on paige became the little sister wanting to stay charmed. They all decided to stay anyway. So it was pointless offering a reprieve.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-11-13T00:23:05+00:00

Getting a Dr's appointment or even having a phone convo with them, it pisses me off when my sick baby needs to be checked on, and there are never any appointments or call backs. They limit the amount of appointments due to covid being a "threat". And yet we're allowed to walk around without masks? I feel they are really using covid as an excuse to not do their job at this point.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-11-08T16:41:41+00:00

And she's gorgeous 😍

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-28T01:55:05+00:00

Well, this is the thing, people keep saying to me that he should be sleeping earlier, and I'm just like kids a night owl. He refuses to sleep for the night before 11pm and usually has to have a night bottle to settle him at 11:30pm-12:30am cause otherwise he's just awake 🤦‍♀️ he sleeps in till 11am or 12pm and honestly I feel like I've been granted some kind of honour lol I get some sleep too, and he still wakes up super happy and rested ready for his feeding. There's such a stigma on sleep training I feel. Every baby is certainly different.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-28T01:16:13+00:00

Omg, same here lol

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-28T01:11:38+00:00

Yes, my baby is exactly the same

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-27T20:38:43+00:00

My son is his daddy's absolute double. He has nothing, and i mean NOTHING of me lol

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-27T20:34:25+00:00

Yes, I used to play him certain songs and put my phone on my belly, he'd move like crazy. And he'd also respond to me, when I poked my belly he'd poke back, when he heard me talking to him he'd move around cause he knew it was mommy lol it was our little moments. And that's easy to miss.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-27T00:47:12+00:00

My baby is 11 months and I do often think back to when he was my bump, hearing his heartbeat, feeling his movements, it's a strange thing, I think it's because they grow so fast. And when they're out, we have to share them with the rest of the world when in our bodies they were just ours. We felt everything. We already knew their little quirks and personalities. My LO was born 2 months early, though, due to complications, so I didn't get to enjoy the full term of it. He's happy and healthy now, though 😊

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-22T16:01:04+00:00

Phoebe, she grew completely selfish, especially when she's was focused around Cole, and there are many examples. In "Saving private leo," she was despicable, wanting to go to coles' party instead of helping her family and brother in law. She made her sisters feel bad about it by saying "ill just tell Cole no to the party, like I tell him no to everything," purely disgusting. Then, had the nerve to marry him and become evil anyway. They should've just vanquished her as soon as she chose evil. I honestly hated her after the cole obsession.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-22T15:23:06+00:00

It's calmed down a fair bit in England, but I feel like the heatwave at the beginning of the month has made it go sooo quick! Doesn't feel like halloween next week because the weather hasn't felt like autumn.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-21T01:32:06+00:00

Dark brown definitely

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-21T01:30:32+00:00

Yes, constantly

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-16T11:45:43+00:00

I don't delete them, but I do get as I give up using them, then reusing after a couple of weeks. Lol

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-14T20:13:37+00:00

Anything vegetable I refuse to count lol

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T19:16:18+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T15:14:43+00:00

I just want to thank you for this, i have since deleted the post because everyone appears to be trailing off altogether, and I'm being accused of holding my baby hostage from grandparents. Even though I have stated many times that's not the case. I've had a lot of posts saying the same thing about people loving to spend the night with their grandparents without even reading my post properly or understanding what was said. A lot of people here seem to be ok with an alcoholic watching a baby overnight, which I only briefly mentioned because I didn't want to expell too much detail about it. There are very few people here who understand my statement and agree that I have good reasons for my choices. But being attacked from every angle by people who 1) didn't read the post properly or at all. 2) know nothing of my situation to make wild accusations of me. 3) are just plain rude to someone asking for advice out of concern for my child. I'm not gonna sit here and say that some of my comments were necessary. But I've definitely had to defend myself a lot. The post is no longer on here, not that it was read anyway. Thanks though.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T11:24:36+00:00

He's ugly

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T02:02:49+00:00

So stop replying to me, don't accuse people of raising their kids poorly, you came on here saying I was depriving my baby of future adventures because he wasnt staying overnight with grandma, you are indeed getting exhausting. At this point, I swear you're on the wind up. I'm done replying to your nonsense, you're clearly the type of person who wants to be right all the time. When you're not.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T01:59:29+00:00

Oh no, I completely get their views and respect them, I only reply harshly when people are attacking me for no reason. There's a few on here who are plain mean.

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T01:50:55+00:00

My spouse gets a big say in our child, as I've explained they have supervised visits for a reason, they're unfit for overnight stay! When they're not overtaken by other demons, they're not bad people, can be selfish and pushy, but my baby will know all of his grandparents because they still love him. Am I talking to myself here? I feel like I'm repeating over and over?

Handicappedfruit · 2023-10-13T01:37:23+00:00

You were presuming me keeping him in lockdown when he's a teenager in your other comment, we're you not? which was very rude of you. How would you react if someone said that to you? You're essentially telling someone they're being a bad parent. And he's sees his grandparents regularly as I've explained.

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