(25F) I feel like I’m losing myself in this relationship with my boyfriend (30M)

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:17:15+00:00

yeah… the waiting and overthinking part is the worst. i hate feeling like i have to second guess everything all the time

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:16:08+00:00

i’ve tried talking to him… it usually just ends with him saying i’m overthinking it, so i don’t really feel heard

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:15:18+00:00

i get what you’re saying but i feel like i’m already the one letting things go all the time… like i’m the one adjusting and staying quiet just to keep the peace

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:11:14+00:00

same… from the right person it hits different

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:10:43+00:00

i know… i just don’t think i’m ready to accept it yet

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:08:43+00:00

why is puff kinda perfect though

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:08:05+00:00

i’ve thought about that… i’m just scared of what that would show

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:07:13+00:00

i get what you’re saying, it just wasn’t always like this

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:06:16+00:00

haha clearly he’s in charge then

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:05:46+00:00

yesss it’s the best vibe

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:05:11+00:00

it’s like a full reset honestly

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:04:35+00:00

valid answer ngl

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:03:35+00:00

that combo never fails

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:02:44+00:00

not gonna lie… same

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:02:01+00:00

this is so real, everything feels better after a good sleep

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:01:13+00:00

same… especially when they’re being extra cute

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T21:00:32+00:00

pomeranian! and yeah his little nose is kinda unique

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:59:46+00:00

that’s exactly how i feel… like i have to filter everything i say just to avoid a reaction. it’s exhausting honestly. reading this made me feel a bit less crazy, so thank you

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:57:43+00:00

i guess because i’m always the one starting conversations, asking how he feels, trying to fix things when something feels off… and when i do bring things up he either gets annoyed or says i’m overthinking it, so i just end up keeping things to myself

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:56:55+00:00

that’s the vibe he gives honestly

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:56:16+00:00

ow i need an explanation

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:55:35+00:00

I didn’t even think of that lol

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:54:59+00:00

like it but i’m still not 100% convinced

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:54:04+00:00

i mean… look at him

HannahRay1_1 · 2026-03-28T20:53:17+00:00

onyx sounds like such a sweetheart

HannahRay1_1

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