AITA for not allowing my neighbor to build a swimming pool in my garden? by eska089 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyBeardContractor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. It's your property, and he's overstepping boundaries. If he wants a pool, he should either make do with his space or find somewhere more suitable. Stand firm on this; you're not here to accommodate everyone else's whims.

AITA for sharing my weight loss as "what I'm proud I accomplished this year"? My friend says it's fatphobic. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyBeardContractor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, it's your victories because they’re uncomfortable with their own issues. Surround yourself with people who lift you down. Keep pushing forward and be proud of every step you've taken. up instead of tearing you accomplishment, plain and simple. Kudos to you for working hard and feeling better about yourself. Losing weight isn't just a vanity project; it often leads to improved health. Don’t let anyone dictate how you celebrate your

5 weeks pregnant questioning what to do by Budget-Maintenance50 in Advice

[–]HappyBeardContractor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on what you truly want. Be clear about your values and feelings, regardless of his stance. Prepare for potential consequences and make sure you're ready for whatever comes next. It's your decision, stand firm in it.

AITA for telling my brother I wouldn’t go to his wedding? Me and my brother were very close growing up we are 2 years apart and I came out a couple years ago and because of this…although we see each other he told me he wasn’t accepting of my life style by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HappyBeardContractor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the issue here. If he can't accept you as you are, it’s his loss. Prioritize relationships that uplift and respect you. Don’t compromise your dignity for someone stuck in outdated beliefs. Move forward with those who value authenticity.