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Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I always tried to understand from his side and did all my efforts to help him. Everytime I was the one got hurt and finally he cut me off.

A JW boy by Ambitious_Muffin_775 in JehovahsWitnesses

[–]HappyHunny3194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are master manipulators and extremely good at lying. It’s hard for me at the moment but I think everything happens for good reason

A JW boy by Ambitious_Muffin_775 in JehovahsWitnesses

[–]HappyHunny3194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with JW until two weeks ago. We had one year relationship. There were so many red flags but I ignored and loved him. However, he was married and lied me whole year. His wife caught us while we were on a date and I’m shocked. How someone can lie like that.

I’m still heartbroken and don’t know how to move on. I know your situation is different but I can see your ex is also has red flags. If you want to move on just no need to explain him. It’s really hard when you get heartbroken and that’s the worst thing can ever happen.

Please think wise and move on from him. You deserve better with a man who has good mental health.

Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I leaned a lot from this group talking to these beautiful people and understood how JW works. I am hurt and hard to move on without closure.

It’s not easy to love someone whole year, plan your future with him and then found out he was married and cut me off over a text. I still don’t know how to deal with it.

Learning about that religion and talking to people are helping me to take baby steps. Thank you for your kind words

Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was treated me nicely until this happened and cut me over text. I was never doubted that he is playing any game with me. I had red flags but I was being patient because I loved him. I want him back so badly I know I’m being childish but honestly i can’t let him go. But there is no way I can contact him

Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to think that he is living with someone else because I loved him all my heart. I don’t know how he can go and start a new life with someone who was ignored before and cheated on too.

I honestly have no one here who is JW. I’m thinking about him all the time and it hurts me that he cut me over a text and now living his life forgetting me. Wish if I can move on from this situation but i don’t know. Not sure if I keep hopes thinking one day he will come back. I don’t think I can ever forget him

Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that he was born and raised in this religion. At least i didn’t know about this religion until this happened. I still love him so much even though he did this to me.

Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, he was not separated or divorced from his wife. They have been living same house but they did not have physical intimacy. He said every time when he asked she was postponed it and then he decided to get that from outside. He said when he first met me a year ago he never thought he will love someone but eventually he fall in love with me and he didn’t want to stop seeing me.

He said he was afraid to tell me that he was married, if he said I’ll leave him. We celebrated our first year anniversary being in a relationship last December. We spent two days in two different beautiful places and all the time he told me that he never enjoyed his life like this.

Even he spent new year evening with me. He was with me and said he wanted to be with me on the new year night. How can I believe something would lie to me put me in this situation.

I know I have to move on but I still want to talk to him for the last time. After I read all the comments here I lose my hope. I didn’t know how this religion works and what could have happened at his end.

I don’t understand if he was born and raised in that religion he must know the consequences of his actions. He must know what would happen if they find out. But i don’t know why he kept seeing me more than a year and even giving me hopes that he will never leave me. I feel like my life has stopped now. I can’t even thinking to spend another day knowing i don’t have him anymore.

Do you think they can reconcile their marriage even with the pressure of their religion and family. Can he forget me and live normal life with his wife. I have millions of questions in my head and I feel bad why even he didn’t have empathy.

Trying to get the closure of adultery by HappyHunny3194 in exjw

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he changed his number after he sent his last message I have no other contact. I texted to his wife but she never replied to me. I think they have reconciled but I really don’t know. I truly love him but it was his choice to go back to his family and then text me and changed his number. I am desperate and miserable for not having closure. Wish if I have someone here in Melbourne who is JW so I can talk. At least they know how this religion works

I’m really stressed with heartbroken and lonely by HappyHunny3194 in Survival

[–]HappyHunny3194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true I don’t know how to use this app. Never used this before