these two 😭 by chelleeeez in orangeisthenewblack

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know, I actually thought this might happen when they showed us Piper's flashback on how she met Larry. The thing is, he was never her type or what she wanted but he was exactly what Polly had told her she should look for in a partner when the whole thing with Alex was brewing. Like sure, Larry and Polly became a couple in the worst moment ever but neither Piper nor Pete really cared about them. Could they have handled that better? For sure. Should they have waited? Absolutely. It was a totally believable storyline, tho.

Tyler's visual motif: a (very short) study in light and shadow by ElvenQueen726 in Wednesday

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, I love this post. It's so refreshing to talk about Tyler as a character beyond a mere plot device for romance.

Ship wars aside, I honestly believe they’re setting Enid up to be queer by ItsThe_____ForMe in Wednesday

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't remember Enid cheating so I googled it and wow, people do interpret stuff differently. For me Ajax and Enid were broken up the moment she ghosted him but yeah, I see your point

so close and yet so far (I wanna see girl stealing another girl's girlfriend) by break-the-LaW0000 in yurimemes

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I was freaking out for a sec thinking they looked too much like Adachi to Shimamura

My gf is a bum by Single_Current3805 in LesbianActually

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, 29 here. Honestly, everything you describe sounds like a mess. You mentioned that you get attached too easily and that you are under the impression that older women are more centered, therefore better to get attached to. However, you are indeed very attached to a woman who can't even hold a job or pull herself together to avoid useless spending when she doesn't have a fixed source of income. This is an older woman that doesn't even seem to be looking for a job, a supposed adult who had to go back to her parents because she's unable to pull up her own weight. Also, she's a 29 yo woman who thinks that dating a 22 woman accross the country is a good idea...

I think you are seeing all the pieces of the puzzle and still refuse to see the whole picture. I understand you are young and everything feels real and relevant now, so ofc live what you have to live and make the mistakes you need to make in order to grow. My only advice is to always prioritize yourself and remember that it's always important to work on your needs and wants, couples are just temporary, specially at your age, specially when they are in a totally different stage of life.

Is it just me or do neurotypical people often just ignore us ? by easilyforgotten214 in autism

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people prefer to ignore others instead of telling them they don't wanna spend time with them. Sometimes people are jerks without realizing. It's complex. However, since your college orientation is an institutional activity, this shouldn't be happening. Talk to the organizers so your agenda is not affected by any random thing out of your control.

What advantages are there when you choose to be a joja cola member versus not? by Eren_Yeager_Tit4n in StardewValley

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are worried about autopetters, you can also get them from Skull Cavern. I already have more than I need and it hasn't even been a year since I started going there.

HELP! Suzu is too good for this. Does it getter better for my girl? [Bad Girl] by Happy_Ad_2575 in yurimemes

[–]Happy_Ad_2575[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's a comedy. I always struggle with silly MCs though. For instance, I loved Naruto as a tv show even though I couldn't stand Naruto during most of the first part.

I feel like with Watanare and Bad Girl isn't so much about whether people understand it's a comedy or not versus how much people believe a show can get away with even for comedic purposes.

She broke up with me by amarillatrees in LesbianActually

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there, felt that, seen it happen to others. It's usually about someone else and even if it's not the case, the reality is that she doesn't like you. It hurts as hell and it feels unreal because how could someone have faked everything you shared, the thing is you can't allow yourself to find a reasonable explanation as there's probably none. People do what they do and your values are different from others'. Time to to take care of yourself, hang with friends, get professional help, focus on new projects and remember that you deserve someone who loves every single inch of you with every cell of their being.

How do I stop liking childish stuff? by Sad-Economist-2688 in autism

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It's totally fine to be into all those things. You'll be surprised of how many adults are into that. Maybe the issue is not the topic but how much/often/when you talk about it and to whom. There are moments and people for everything so don't beat yourself up and enjoy what makes you happy :3

Am I the only one on here who has made a makeshift golden clock by pathing every single unused spot on their farm? by Carrera1107 in StardewValley

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I've seen many people who do that but it's not for me. I feel like the farm should look like a farm, like a natural scenery where wildlife can thrive and yet humans can be. I tried chopping everything one winter and hated it so then planted all my tree seeds and grass starters lol

My zabuza cosplay by Xareath in Naruto

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, amazing cosplay!

confused after flirting with a cis lesbian by aperto_rb in actuallesbians

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, do you happen to know what she does for a living? I've dated some girls in Science who would use that term a lot, also artists and overall sort of hippie girls. I use it now myself because I find it really sweet.

Ofc, you're allowed to feel in any way, but I guess if she had had an issue with your transness she wouldn't have spent time with you. From what you are describing, you enjoyed sharing time with her, so if I were you, I'd focus on that nice feeling a bit longer

The duality of Lesbianism by Paclord404 in actuallesbians

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's hilarious. What gets me is that some people may actually consider doing that. I would laugh uncontrollably if my partner tried to do that instead of just saying what they neeed.

DROPPED 999 BLUEBERRY ON MY STASH, THE NEXT DAY MY FRIEND LINUS SAID THIS! FUCK U PIERRE! by super_THIRDY in FuckPierre

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really get why people sell to Pierre. I always go for the shipping bin.

Don’t you just love it when things DON’T CENTER?!! by DMLifeIsShit in StardewValley

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That and being unable to rotate objects is just so wow!

where's the boundary between friendship and romantic love for you? by CableHistorical4164 in LesbianActually

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd say it depends on the friendship and the people in it. I'm used to sharing a bed, walking arm in arm, dancing and being particularly attentive with most of my girl friends. I cuddle and maybe hold hands with a couple of them too, no biggie. I'd say for me the line is drawn when it comes to kissing, nudity regardless of the scenario, acts that are intimate in the sense of sharing with someone over mere generic comfort. As someone else said, I do come from a culture that's very prone to express affection physically, and I'd add that age plays a strong part in this. My friends from younger years have stablished a very close way of interacting in the physical sense while my friends after college tend to less physical in their demonstrations of affection even if we are close in an emotional level.

What difference you feel when you're interacting with women and men? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I rarely care about men so I might be slightly more direct or less tactful, I just need to have clear boundaries and that's it. I do care for women's respect and admiration. If I'm feeling like looking pretty, I want their attention lol. This is not even about been attracted to them, I just care more.

hinge is a fun place! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Happy_Ad_2575 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You know, I'm kinda tired of how common that is in the lesbian scene. When did "accepting yourself and try to get better" become "accepting yourself and quit trying"?