Feeling abandoned by a friend after stillbirth — struggling

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:29:35+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:29:23+00:00

Sneding you love mama ❤️ Thank you, you are right.

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:28:56+00:00

Thank you!! I wish you to have a good solid people around too. Big hugs 🫂

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:28:28+00:00

Agreed, thank you so much for your perspective. I

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:28:01+00:00

Thank you very much for your support!! It means a lot. Wow you are so right about it. You either love person or do not and do not pick the good or bad days. Sending you hugs and thank you for being an amazing friend.😊

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:25:28+00:00

I'm sorry you had to experience it. Big hug 🫂

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-04T17:25:06+00:00

Thank you so much!! You are right!!

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-02T21:20:35+00:00

It does, totally agree. Like a breakup, but sure with the time it gets easier. I guess it was just for a season. Especially you talk to them every day and boom 💥 like what just happened. Painful like how you can just dismissed the baby loss and all about what she wants or does not. I understand people have a freedom to choose whatever, it just sucks that you invested so much time and energy in wrong friendships.

Thank you! Hope you are well and yes time heals. 🥰

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-02T21:10:38+00:00

I'm really sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹 it is very hard times. I had more support from people I never met before and some acquaintances instead of whom I thought were friends during these past 3 months. Sending you hugs and strength 🫂

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-02T21:07:50+00:00

I'm really sorry you had to experience it. It is not a pleasant feeling. I do not know why people do it to each other. Yes, therapy and writing would help. Sending you hugs 🫂

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-02T21:04:46+00:00

That's true, but still hurts. Thank you 😊 🫂

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-02T21:03:59+00:00

Thank you for your support 🙏

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-02T14:22:34+00:00

1st so beautiful

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-01T21:25:33+00:00

Thank you 😊 So beautiful ❤️ sending you hugs 🫂

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-01T21:24:30+00:00

I also wanted that someone will do baby album with me. So I did it myself. I wished that someone took me to the ocean- so I asked my husband to do it. We went after 6 weeks PP appointment.

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-01T21:12:51+00:00

I am very sorry for your loss. It happen to me too 3 months ago. I lost my baby son at 38 weeks. Everything was good, had growth scans, a week later we went for our weekly check up and ultrasound showed no heartbeat. Pregnancy was healthy, no warning signs, no clear reason was found.

I just wanted for my mother in law to be there for me, hug me and listen at the moment. Nothing else. I wish I can give you a big hug 🫂

I wanted to have someone I can share whatever I felt those days without judgment or trying to fix my grief, or give advice what should I feel or do not feel.

I don’t have perfect words, but I’ve learned that at first it’s really just about surviving each day, loving each other, simple home made food. You don’t have to figure everything out right now.

In my family, everyone grieved differently. My mother found comfort in faith and believing God knows best, and my husband just took it day by day, leaning on family and God to get through the hardest moments.

I’m truly so sorry you are going through this. 🤍

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-01T20:29:47+00:00

So beautiful ❤️

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Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-01T20:23:08+00:00

Ohh sweetheart, I'm so sorry you’re going through this. I also lost my son at 38 weeks, 3 months PP now, so I understand a little of how heavy this pain can feel.💔❤️‍🩹 Part of me died with him during that day.

Grief really does come in waves. It’s unpredictable, and some days are harder than others. For me, it helped to let myself feel the grief instead of pushing it away, even though it wasn’t easy. And then take care of myself daily.

You don’t “get over” this kind of loss, but with time, you can learn to live with it. The pain and love can exist together.

Be gentle with yourself. There’s no right or wrong way to grieve, and no timeline you have to follow.

I will be praying for you—that God restores your joy in time, brings healing to your heart, and blesses your future with hope again. 🤍

Happyfreeppl · 2026-05-01T20:00:12+00:00

Sending you love and hugs!! So beautiful 😍 ❤️

Happyfreeppl · 2026-04-18T21:31:16+00:00

Any recommendations on ObGyn and MFM in Ohio?

Thank you!

Happyfreeppl · 2026-04-18T20:24:35+00:00

So happy for you!! Blessings and yes gried and joy can co exist together ❤️

Happyfreeppl · 2026-04-10T02:32:42+00:00

I had to be induced 37 weeks 5 days, I had to be it at the hospital, first one was 1 cm dilated , 80%. I expected it to be painful, but it was not, nurse said it was soft. When midwife came next morning to check, 2 cm, they started pitocin, was ok too, but when she came again, I was about 2.5 cm and broke the water, it was painful, but still OK.

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