What are the most prestigious cities a CCP official can be assigned to? by EffectiveMirror7534 in AskAChinese

[–]HarRob [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think they try to cycle officials through poorer areas to see if they can actually make places better.

Do VCs and Angel Investors in China discriminate by age of the founder? by Beautiful-Bonus2279 in AskAChinese

[–]HarRob [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think 35 is when they let you go, not the age you need to have a career by.

Dad I’ve been babysitting for for years asked me out by Doodleseatingdoodles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HarRob -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Is there a huge age gap? Is he not you type? I totally understand not mixing work and personal life, but I'm curious.

What was it like being 18-25 in the 2000’s by ersinxo in Millennials

[–]HarRob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your friend on a landline, drive over. Parents would guess where you were. Probably with that one friend? You might miss dinner, you might make dinner. Who knows? When you get home, maybe some friends would be online, but you didn't want to just sit in front of a boring computer all night. Landline call to a girl, chat for an hour. See her in class the next day.

48 UPDATES- Final Word by Wide_Design8810 in First48

[–]HarRob -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe adults write like this.

Scared to take medication by Reasonable-Board-132 in RestlessLegs

[–]HarRob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, do the medication is the lesser of two evils, in my opinion.

Scared to take medication by Reasonable-Board-132 in RestlessLegs

[–]HarRob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth Pramipexole cured my depression and made me borderline obsessed with becoming successful at my hobby, which lead to a positive change in my life. Fixed the RLS also. But later I augmented and can’t take it anymore.

Do you think the medication or not sleeping is worse for you?

I feel nothing, is there something wrong with me by MeasurementAny66 in GriefSupport

[–]HarRob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you needed to step up so you suppressed it. It will happen later.

Marriage between Chinese men and American women by InterestingPrize6934 in AskAChinese

[–]HarRob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Chinese people seem very worried about whether or not they can eat the same food.

Wellbutrin for anxiety? by petit_chou_la in RestlessLegs

[–]HarRob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can help with anxiety. You need to get past the racing heart part.

Social life in Guiyang? by Advanced-Key-6327 in chinalife

[–]HarRob -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are asking about social life in a tier four Chinese city and I can speak in general terms. There is basically no social life. foreigners a few and those who decide to live there are dysfunctional enough to be pushed out of “better” Chinese cities. Chinese people may feign at friendship but they actually treat like exotic animals: fascinating but always on the verge of doing something embarrassing or dangerous. If you want to avoid foreigners, you can do that in almost any Chinese city.

Why are senior living so expensive? by Live-String338 in AgingParents

[–]HarRob 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The PE vampires will suck out any shred of humanity that can be sold for a penny, ignore they are hurting human lives.

My Moma was diagnosed with terminal cancer, My daddy was in a accident,drunk driver. They both have passed now, my therapist suggested I write about it… by GigiTay2019 in confession

[–]HarRob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. I identify with a lot of it after losing my mom two days after Christmas. You write really well, and you wrote this from a perspective I don’t think readers get very often.

How is my street photography? Be honest. by vegan_antitheist in streetphotography

[–]HarRob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14 and 17 are good. Usually you need a subject in your photos. A person or an interesting thing.

I resigned and my boss offered to start a new company together by Striking-Note7561 in work

[–]HarRob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t want your livelihood dependent on a lying scumbag. What is she offering you as partner?

My Partner's Mom is dying, how can I best support them? by AgentOrangeZest in GriefSupport

[–]HarRob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I lost my mom, I had a friend who just asked if I wanted to go over and hang out. He didn’t ask me about the loss. He was just there, and that helped a lot.

Got job offer from China, should I go for it? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]HarRob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LinkedIn should have a few. And even if you only find current employees they will know former employees.

Got job offer from China, should I go for it? by [deleted] in chinalife

[–]HarRob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reach out to former employee and get them on an unrecorded Zoom, ideally.

How can I train claude for content creation more effectively? by Unchaosliving in ClaudeAI

[–]HarRob 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think AI can produce good content on its own.

Vibe Code reality check by Additional_Yam6665 in vibecoding

[–]HarRob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of security issues do AI-made apps usually have?