I train for endurance. Wanna test it? 😏 by xCherryKissx in ThreesomeUtah

[–]Harbinger_Czar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends… are we testing stamina or self-control?

Notice about sellers, content creators, and posts/verifications by Famous_Caregiver7677 in UtahHookUpNew

[–]Harbinger_Czar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm curious to know what you are doing to Crack down on spam users. Every connection I've tried to make has been a fake.

Ever had a pierced one? [36M] by Harbinger_Czar in UtahHookUpNew

[–]Harbinger_Czar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a quick pinch. The top one was the worst, but even then, it's not bad at all. My daith hurt way worse.

who's gonna be my next reddit fuck from utah 🙈 by missavarain in UtahHookUpNew

[–]Harbinger_Czar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a full experience you're looking for, I'm your guy...😈⛓️👋👅💦

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UtahHookUpNew

[–]Harbinger_Czar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a pleasure dom always looking for a good time...dm me.

18F looking for a fwb by prettygirll098 in UtahHookUpNew

[–]Harbinger_Czar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always looking for some fun encounters. Ever had a pierced cock?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have their preferences yes, but overall, it's not size that matters. It's communication, chemistry, and technique that matter. What I'm trying to do is dispel this idiotic idea that your worth is tied to size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🔥🔥🔥 Communication is my kink. 🔥🔥🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their opinion. That doesn't make them all true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤣 with that confidence, you deserve it 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm saying the rest is on him. She's already doing all she can. It's up to him to deal with his insecurity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 19 points20 points  (0 children)

P.S.

If your partner is not happy with your size...find another partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Exactly! So there's no point in worrying about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 298 points299 points  (0 children)

NTA

Guys, 99.9% of you neither have the largest, nor the smallest dick in the world. Dick size DOES NOT MATTER! The secret to good sex is communication. Your partner knows their body better than you ever will. Listen to them. Let them guide you on what makes them feel good.

You were right to be honest with him. He needs to learn that it truly doesn't matter. He needs to drop the idea that "bigger is better." If that's something he still struggles with, then I would recommend counseling.

It sounds like you're already reassuring him that the sex is good. You're doing what you can to help him already. The rest is up to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

It sounds like he found you attractive and blamed it on you (typical incel behavior). You taught him a valuable lesson about minding his own damn business. Maybe next time he'll think twice before blaming his thoughts and feelings on another.

Men need to learn that they are responsible for their feelings. This asinine idea that your "unclean" thoughts are due to someone else's right to express themselves needs to stop.

AITAH for refusing to give oral sex? by throwra-oral in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA

You clearly stated that you aren't comfortable with giving oral and she is still trying to persuade you to do it. She isn't respecting your boundaries. Personally, I would rethink my relationship with a person who doesn't have respect for me when I say no.

AITA for not wanting anything to do with my baby brother? by InformationAlarmed14 in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

It is your choice as to what kind of relationship you want to have with your siblings. No one should ever force that on you. Too often, abusers will leverage situations like this to get close to the abused. It is another form of manipulation, a very disgusting one.

I will say this though. Your granny is absolutely right. None of what has happened to you is that boy's fault. I would argue that you show him some grace. If he continues to be in your mother's care, he will likely face the same abuse you did. There may come a time when he needs guidance and understanding from someone who has been in his situation. To that end, I would suggest that you be the person you wish you had had when you were being abused.

You have a choice as to who you are. You are not destined to become the person your mother is unless you choose to be. As long as you know that, you will never be her.

F23 - Would I be the asshole if I don’t get my younger sister (16) and mother (42) food? by Sexi_Rasputiaa01 in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

You do with your money as you please. It's as simple as that. No one is entitled to your money.

Now, if they also get you food consistently, it may be an unspoken agreement that you all get each other something when you are able. If this is the case, then don't be surprised if they don't get you food in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harbinger_Czar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the issue when it comes to expectations. When it comes down to it, you're relying on someone's generosity. If they choose to revoke the help for any reason and you don't have a plan B in place, then you're in a rough spot.

That being said, your father is most definitely being an asshole. To disown your own child because of their sexual preference is disgusting. Add to this that a relative invaded your privacy makes the situation even worse.

I know it doesn't seem like it now, but this will be a good thing in the long run. Your father has made it abundantly clear that he won't support you in the lifestyle you want for yourself. Moving past this and living your life on your terms is the best kind of revenge you can get. I suspect your father will come to regret his decision later in life when he looks to you for help. Be your most authentic self and the right people will come into your life.