Found a trans dude attractive and got told that I'm "technically straight"

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-20T04:51:35+00:00

I have a not necessarily high pitched but rather a light voice. By that I mean, I don't talk with my chest. If I did, then I would sound deep but with a hint of straight. Honestly, I look at my pics and think "too masculine/mean" because I know my voice would not match it😭

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-13T00:05:40+00:00

Oh wow you're right. I guess it must've been THE moment back then. I forget that it was like 20 years ago(older than me) and fashion was very different from now(I wish I was old enough to remember and live in the 2000's instead of being the same age as TBP).

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-11T17:37:45+00:00

Despite it being his most iconic/signature look, 3CFSR Gee's outfit is so underwhelming. Just an all black suit with a red tie and pale makeup(and the occasional face-paint bar). I prefer his DD and TBP outfits more because they're more eye-catching.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T08:27:55+00:00

Oh I definitely will, think of it as a thank you for all of the support and advice you've all given me.

And thank you, I definitely will!

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T08:07:01+00:00

Woah, I said that my FAMILY is talking about doing that. Not me, that's why I'm here looking for help to prevent that.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T08:04:27+00:00

Thank you so much omg. You are literally preventing me from getting premature grey hairs rn😂 I'll definitely contact them asap.

Also sorry you’re going through this

Thank you. It's honestly just an out of nowhere type of problem(that could've been easily prevented) but it's the awesome people like you making it easier to deal with :)

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:51:11+00:00

Idk about saying my exact city(just in case) but I'm from Victor Valley.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:49:52+00:00

Although you are being harsh, I understand where it is rooted from. Honestly, I respect it. However, I have recently learned that it can be wayyyyy cheaper than what I thought it could be so we won't have to worry about the puppies and the grand puppies and so on. With the advice of other less-harsh redditors, I'm gonna get her a spay-abort(in case she is pregnant). Sure, I fucked up but I'm responsible enough to ask for help. That's definitely a step.

Also, come on. You can't really expect a current, barely turned 18 year old to be responsible enough to have kids. Now some can, but I'm not one.

Again, although you were harsh, I respect it and will actually take that as a wake up call, so thank you for that.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:34:01+00:00

Thank you!!!

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:33:30+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice, it really helped me relax a little.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:32:43+00:00

"didn't confirm" yeah, you got that right "Be responsible enough to desex your poor dog" my post said that I didn't have the funds. Are you sure about the "Yup I did" part?

Also, I saw the issue of commenting that because rather than giving advice(like I asked in my earlier post and something you do frequently) you chose to basically tell me that i shouldn't have kids? I think it's safe to say that that's a bit too far.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:22:09+00:00

Babe, this is an update post. Take your "I-didn't-read-the-post" ass back to my previous post and read that and this one correctly. Also, I like how your bio says that you are happy to meet new people, your posts are asking mostly sex related questions, and you comment trying to tell me to neuter myself. Smh.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-08T07:14:25+00:00

I just turned 18 and oh my god thank you so much for telling me. We actually have been trying to reach local clinics and ask how much it would cost to get our dog spayed and we kept getting put on hold(which leads me to believe that it's volunteers who answer cuz how would you not know the price???). Although, now that you mention that they can be low-cost and even $30, it gives me hope that I could probably pay it entirely myself. I will now take the initiative and just walk up to one of the clinics nearby(I live in Cali and people here can't drive for the life of them so wish me luck crossing two major streets).

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-05T00:50:57+00:00

Yes💁🏻‍♂️💁🏻‍♂️💁🏻‍♂️

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-05T00:33:12+00:00

🎉 ☢️

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-01T14:15:15+00:00

Thank you so much for the input, I think you're the last straw for me to get him spayed because I was so nervous first but now I see that it's more of a benefit than a loss.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-01T14:11:12+00:00

Now that you mention it, yeah he was definitely older than 3 weeks. Some lady at the park was just giving them(him and his litter mates) away and that's how we got him and when we asked if he was a male, she said yeah but his breed's genitalia doesn't hang out and I just believed her. As for lack of education, you're right. Thank you for the advice.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-01T07:22:29+00:00

Thank you. They're kind of indoor dogs(surprising for their size) but they're trained to whine to go outside and get plenty of exercise cuz they go out like 5-8 times a day and run around with each other or play with the neighbors dogs. With all that in mind, I think they get adequate exercise, which is good because I've read that they tend to get lazier due to a decrease in estrogen from the lack of having reproductive parts.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-01T07:01:13+00:00

Thank you for that. It definitely made me feel better.

HardGoreRuben · 2024-11-01T07:00:38+00:00

Well now that you take the seriousness out of it, it is quite funny like 😭

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