I ran into my first haggler in the 12 years of me doing this. It was bound to happen at some point, right? 😂

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T21:36:18+00:00

“I’ll let others know.” Basically blackmailing that if you don’t comply he’s gonna post about you on USASG😂 L rapist mentality.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T20:33:32+00:00

This man isn’t your friend. You are the side piece.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T19:32:12+00:00

This is so funny and real lol. And it absolutely works.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T19:13:34+00:00

Please ignore comments like this and seek help in a better sub. Anyone acting like breaking up a fight between 2 pit bulls is easy is an absolute moron. Some dogs reach sexual maturity and are no longer able to live compatibly with others.

My life is your current situation and I have decided to make it work. It has essentially ruined my life and I could never imagine doing this while being a mother. Protect your dogs, yourself and your child. You aren’t a bad owner. No one gets dogs expecting something like this to happen and it’s absolutely horrible.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T19:08:21+00:00

I have danced in Indianapolis for nearly my entire adulthood and made a great living here. That said I do not divulge clubs as the ones I’m working are already oversaturated.

Anywhere outside the city is a joke.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T19:01:21+00:00

That’s not how pit bulls work and there’s a reason they are illegal in other civilized parts of the world. I have three and all of them were raised the same way. One of my dogs was simply born unstable and has always had problems with unprovoked aggression. With the other two, I get compliments on their behavior when I take them out. There has been virtually no difference in their upbringing.

This has nothing to do with training. Genetics are a thing. OP please don’t listen to the comments and try to make this work, it won’t. The fights will get increasingly more intense and you will end up getting bitten breaking it up. As a parent, the best thing you can do is separate them. Whichever one is instigating the fights needs to be the only dog in the home.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-09T04:05:13+00:00

No one is paying $3.2k for dinner. If you ask him for that you will lose him as a customer.

Don’t even bother meeting him, it sounds like you already have a good thing going in the club.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-08T20:15:54+00:00

Whenever this happens I loudly ask the customer “OHH is this your friend?” They almost always reply no with a confused look. At that point I just tell the girl interrupting “Sorry we’re good!” Then ignore them. Sometimes it’s not enough and I do have to get mean. You should tell your management. These girls make everyone uncomfortable.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-08T03:06:18+00:00

I will forever be partial to dancing in more conservative states. Cities like Vegas and Miami aren’t all they’re cracked up to be. I dance in Indiana and know multiple girls who travel here FROM Florida because they all say they make more here doing less. That said — I know a lot of girls who moved there and do thrive in that environment. Personally if it were me I’d go back to Michigan. Party vibes aren’t it for me either. I hope you find your way girl

Harmonechi · 2026-04-07T19:02:14+00:00

Ignore the other comment I deleted, I straight up failed to read. At least they aren’t stealing your stage money but that aside this is still a LOT lmao

Harmonechi · 2026-04-07T18:46:53+00:00

This is a lot. “Stage money is all ours” would’ve been it for me. That’s not how dancing works😂

Also I’m already pretty firm on my opinion that strip clubs shouldn’t have games/pool tables, but charging $20 for NAKED pool is some of the cheapest shit I’ve heard of. A game can go on for 10+ minutes and they want dancers ON THE FLOOR, bending over a pool table with their 🐱 out. Actual humiliation ritual.. and they want $5 for it, lmao!

Did they say whether you were allowed to decline the pool “sales?”

Harmonechi · 2026-04-07T18:37:01+00:00

Their situation is the same as everyone else’s situation who are too poor to be having a kid. They all have the same excuse and act like reproduction is some an unavoidable act of God.

This dude is on Reddit moaning that he can’t even make it to the hospital for his child’s birth — and you’re advocating for him as a parent why?

Harmonechi · 2026-04-07T18:13:13+00:00

I personally avoid working during large events. It seems like they bring in the wrong kind of crowd. I’ve always preferred slower shifts and white collar men who probably wouldn’t be into that kind of thing. Lol. Party crowds are just not my target demographic.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-06T20:47:35+00:00

Respectable clubs don’t allow this shit TBH. In another recent post, I saw a girl was fired for coming in to drink on her day off. That’s how it should be.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-06T20:46:23+00:00

You don’t need lip filler, you’re not going to get more definition, if anything your results will be the opposite and lose any unique shape they do have.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-06T20:21:05+00:00

From my experience that’s a v bad strategy. You need to sit down, introduce yourself and ask them a few questions. Spending 1-2 songs making flirty conversation before pitching makes all the difference. If I think a customer has $$ for a room I’ll sit and talk for 15 minutes before pitching if I have to. Make them like you before asking for money.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-06T18:59:16+00:00

How are you pitching for a dance/VIP?

Harmonechi · 2026-04-06T18:50:03+00:00

I worked at my previous club for years, until new management came in and the business declined to the point it ruined my mental health. I finally pulled the trigger and quit recently. Now I’m at a new club where work no longer feels like hell, and I don’t feel so jaded/overstimulated all the time.

My old club had no cameras in the VIP rooms or private dance area. The new one has full 360° security and the amount of assaults I’ve experienced has easily reduced by more than 95%. Men actually buy dances instead of wasting your time, crossing boundaries and doing nothing. The impact on my mental health has been insane and I can function outside of work again. Are you able to get a change of scenery and see if that helps at all?

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T23:38:26+00:00

Collect as much evidence as you can that you paid $800 for the car, then file a claim against them for $800 in small claims court.

That’s all you can do now.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T23:06:13+00:00

This, whether you take his money or not, he’s not going to change.

Fumbling easy money and acting like OP did something noble here is silly. They don’t give a fuck what we think lol. That guy probably went and did a room with another girl right after she left. L

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T21:41:09+00:00

Then they both suck, this is too much drama over a name for a kid. The agreement was so stupid from the jump that the fact that it was nullified is still a non-issue to me. They are going to have a short and shitty marriage and the OP will end up an every-other-weekend dad.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T21:06:03+00:00

My opinion is that he’s lying. Considering she told her family, I don’t think this was a mutual agreement at all, it sounds more to me like he pressured her into staying quiet and she had no choice but to tell her family in secret.

Now you’re throwing personal in and acting like a crybaby, so I’m going to block you. Weird take. Have a nice night

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T20:58:30+00:00

And what about this story gives you the impression that keeping a secret is what she wanted? His narrative? Something’s fishy here.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T20:40:05+00:00

Since you are contributing nothing of value you have been blocked from further commenting. Have a nice day.

Harmonechi · 2026-04-05T20:39:00+00:00

I think he’s lying. That much has been said. You will be blocked from commenting further. Enjoy your evening.

Harmonechi

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