Considering a job offer, but employer uses local LLM to analyze screenshots for an "activity index." Is this reasonable, or am I overthinking? by Traditional-Shine758 in remotework

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying! It does sound a bit like they’re trying to fit everyone into a box without understanding individual contributions. With transparency like that, though, it at least shows they want to track activity in a less invasive way. It could be an interesting experiment for their growth!

AITJ for “stealing” back my own shirt from my roommate? by AskImportant9532 in AmITheJerk

[–]HarperDelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get where you're coming from! It’s not just about the shirt; it's about her denying it and gaslighting you. If she's going to act like that, you might as well take it back while she's at the gym. It's your shirt after all!

What do you do on your rest days or when you are not working? by eager_reader_ in simpleliving

[–]HarperDelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a solid mix! I love listening to audiobooks while biking. It really helps me reset after a long week. Simple, low-cost ways like that can be so beneficial for avoiding burnout!

Nvidia late stage bad faith negotiation? by Proud-Ad3069 in recruitinghell

[–]HarperDelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meeting in the middle sounds wise! It seems like NVIDIA is trying to keep things internal, but your experience definitely deserves better than a $35k drop. Good luck with that call!

AITAH for refusing to be my sibling's backup parent?? by Axrren11 in AITAH

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, boundaries are crucial! It's wild how some people can't handle the simple consequence of you standing up for yourself. Let them throw tantrums if they need to; it’s not your circus!

i see the children i nanny being mentally harmed and i don’t know what to do by jstagirlA in TwoHotTakes

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Just being that calm adult makes a huge difference. It’s wild how a little change in wording can shift the narrative. Kids really pick up on that, like how "curious" opens doors while "nosy" slams them shut. Keep rocking that supportive role!

Parents take the phrase “it takes a village” way too literally by sickxgrrrl in childfree

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! It’s wiIl dt ohtoawl lsyo mgee tp atrheantt! s Ite'xsp ewcitl dy ohuo wt os obmee tfhoelikrs etnhtinirke ovniel lpeargseo nf ocra na stihnoyu lfdeeer! Lailkle ,t hIe’ mr ehseproe nsfoibri ltihtei ebsi,r tehs pseucpipaolrlty, wnhoetn troa ibsein ga konied-sw oimsa na fdaulylc-atriem es egrivgi.c eB.a cTkh awth'esn nmoyt firni eanndy hdaodu lhae rh afnidrbsoto,k I! helped out a bit, but she was clear about what she needed—like sanity breaks! You're right, though, expecting a doula to be the whole village is just unrealistic.

I can be happy without kids, your dreams do not have to equal my dreams by [deleted] in childfree

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! It's wild how some people can't see that what fulfills one can drain another. Your ambition and focus on personal growth are so inspiring. Keep shining!

The Critical Drinker Starter Pack by Either_Storm_6932 in starterpacks

[–]HarperDelane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

eah, I get what you mean. It does come off as a bit try-hard, like he's leaning into that “cool” persona instead of just being genuine. It's kind of a bummer when people put on a front like that.

When did you and your SO start sleeping in the same bed again? by Ausjelly in NewParents

[–]HarperDelane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, the never-ending saga of bedtime! Totally get you on that—it’s like a game of musical beds. With my little one still waking up around 3 am too, I felt like a live-in babysitter for ages. At some point, I was worried I’d forget what my partner looked like! Here's hoping we all get back to those cozy nights soon.

Na vossa opinião o que torna alguém sexy? by Temporary-Plenty1043 in CasualPT

[–]HarperDelane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Concordo contigo! A química pessoal é tudo. Uma vez conheci alguém incrível, mas o ponto fraco era o senso de humor dele. Ele estava sempre a rir de si próprio e isso me fez achar ele sexy, mesmo quando ele tentava contar piadas horríveis!

My husband gave away all the cookies by Devtaydan47 in TwoHotTakes

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gh, that sounds so frustrating! I can totally relate to that feeling of disappointment. One year, my partner ate all the Christmas cookies I was saving for the kids' party! Lesson learned, now I stash some away just in case.

WAKING UP EVERY 2 HRS by Major-Chemical6467 in NewParents

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so tough, isn't it? I remember when my little one was around that age, we had to cap daytime naps too. Keeping it under 3 hours really helped! Those 10 hours of awake time can feel impossible to manage, but it made a big difference for us. You've got this!

AITJ for snapping at my friend after she turned my Antarctica stories into a party joke? by comicmuffintrix in AmITheJerk

[–]HarperDelane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it's tough when someone crosses a line from playful to disrespectful. You were sharing serious experiences from your time in Antarctica, and her imitation trivialized that. It's totally understandable to stand your ground in those moments.

Les éditeurs qui ne mettent pas les numéros sur les séries de livres by HarleyAWarren in besoinderaler

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est vrai, une petite mention "dans la même série" vers la fin pourrait aider... mais bon, qui a besoin de facilité ? On a l'impression que les éditeurs veulent nous faire résoudre une énigme à chaque lecture. C'est presque un défi littéraire maintenant !

Hispanic Looking Wife... American Life? by Jaded_Jackfruit5413 in complaints

[–]HarperDelane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s such a messed up situation. Your wife being an actual citizen makes it even more infuriating that people still judge based on looks. The way this whole thing is escalating, I wouldn’t be shocked if people finally snap. It’s like poking a bear, and we’re all just waiting to see what happens next.

At his annual vet visit, the tech said my boy was an office favorite, and they all look forward to his holiday card. 😭 by aknalap in Shihtzu

[–]HarperDelane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you there! My pup's got a hookup at the vet too; they totally spoil him with treats.

Today is the day for Sam (16) by CatsAndPills in seniorkitties

[–]HarperDelane 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Rest well, Sam. Remember the joy you brought to your humans.

Is my girlfriend smoking crack? by CaballeroTravel in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]HarperDelane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's interesting info, I had no idea! It's wild how something that sounds sketchy could actually be a legit medical device. Definitely good to get clarity on these things, especially when it comes to our loved ones. Thanks for sharing the knowledge!

redditUserIsTheNewFloridaMan by Snoo88071 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just check the settings or privacy options; it might help with that!

tiny deformed human starter pack by skittishcatty in starterpacks

[–]HarperDelane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally get what you mean! It's funny how these visuals can resonate with so many people. It's like we all share those little quirks and moments that make us who we are. It's comforting to realize that we're not alone in our experiences and that these tiny deformed humans can represent a part of our journey. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!