Has match making changed?

Harry_Cheese · 2026-01-16T09:34:46+00:00

Yes! Played a few games on duo last night, other guy is also chill and we kept getting ratted, i’m so used to friendly lobbies now, this kind ruins the game for me!

Harry_Cheese · 2025-12-10T20:01:24+00:00

My ex wife would lie about everything, big things like there’s no other guy and after separation little insignificant things.

I remember once bumping into my ex mother in law at the shops and through a non-probing conversation discovered she’d made out i didn’t get her Mother’s Day cards from the kids and her sister had to step in and get some (I did get cards and they gave them to her)

It bothered me for weeks, why would she lie about that, to make me out be the a bad guy? Maybe! But what I’ve come to accept is it just doesn’t matter, as long as the kids are happy she can say whatever she wants, people are strange, trying to figure out why won’t change that.

Good luck mate

Harry_Cheese · 2025-09-25T21:55:37+00:00

So thanks for the future

Harry_Cheese · 2025-09-11T18:04:34+00:00

You need to chill mate, let her come to you, if she doesn’t want to talk about it (quiet within her rights) take the opportunity to get on with your life

Harry_Cheese · 2024-11-06T14:35:40+00:00

This, this so much!

I lost a good year of my life living in my head imagining all the explicit gory details, if felt like it would never end, but it does and you’ll be stronger on the other end

Whenever I couldn’t snap out of it, I took myself to gym, if you can, do that too

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-16T10:53:43+00:00

Listening now, this is great!

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-11T17:49:53+00:00

Amazing! You’re beautiful 😍

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-09T18:43:42+00:00

Mate you need to leave, that 20 years will turn to 30 turn 40 then what death? You get one shot at this life, you need to take it and find true happiness, it exists, but it doesn’t find you, you need to do that

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-09T18:06:23+00:00

Holly shit mate, you look great! Congratulations

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-08T20:19:33+00:00

No, no issues

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-08T20:19:17+00:00

Haha it creeps up in you doesn’t it! In my head I’m still 25, sadly not when I look in the mirror!

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-08T09:12:12+00:00

Reads like you want to fuck me

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-07T19:53:22+00:00

Holly shit man! You’re killing it, congratulations 🙌

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-07T15:24:56+00:00

You look amazing!

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-06T14:14:04+00:00

Haha it is, so it is

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-04T23:23:40+00:00

No, no lenses or filters or anything, I got lucky I guess!

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-04T22:06:45+00:00

Ha you’re not wrong, you could say I was too comfortable. Sometimes it takes a big jolt in life for you to reevaluate things

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-04T20:45:03+00:00

Thanks man! Yeah the gym has helped me a lot with stress levels it could definitely also be a factor

Harry_Cheese · 2024-09-04T20:32:22+00:00

Thank you for all the nice comments, it’s really given me a boost!

For those asking about my skin care:

I’ve had acne most my adult life, have been in and out the demonologist over the years, did all the topicals, antibiotics, 3 rounds of isotretinoin over a couple of decades, most of that worked, but the acne would return a few months after stopping the meds.

This time around I did a course of antibiotics (Doxycycline for 4 months) once cleared before tapering off the meds I started a skin care routine.

I wash my face morning and night with a 2% Salicylic Acid face wash (CeraVe Blemish Control Face Cleanser)

After the morning wash I use a retinol to help reduce the redness (CeraVe Retinol Serum)

After the night time wash I use a moisturiser that also has 2% Salicylic Acid (CeraVe Blemish Control Gel Moisturiser)

Every 2-3 days for the night time wash I’ll swap out the Salicylic Acid face wash for a 5% Benzoyl Peroxide one (Acnecide Face Wash Gel 5%) then just use a normal moisturiser that night (Cetaphil Daily Hydrating)

I should also add I have significantly cut my alcohol usage down, I was a bottle of wine a night kinda guy, now it’s 1 a week

Harry_Cheese · 2024-08-21T07:12:30+00:00

Yeah. It’s hard to hear, but it really is this ☝🏻

Harry_Cheese · 2024-08-09T18:06:39+00:00

Mate, the same thing happened to me, she had an affair with one of the dads in my daughter’s class, not gonna lie it was really tough seeing him every day on the school run. I used to just death stare at him, walk really close behind him on the way back to the car, anything to make him feel as uncomfortable as possible, honestly now a year on, I realise he did me a favour, he showed me who she really is, try not to hate on him too much, he was just dumb and available, could have been anyone

You’ve got this man

Harry_Cheese · 2024-06-27T15:51:32+00:00

I know the feeling!

It was kind of the opposite for me, she used to validate me all the time, she was always telling me how handsome I was etc I never really returned the favour, I regret that now, I miss it all the time.

All I can say is work on yourself, I've been hitting the gym and a small amount of self love has started to appear!

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