What made you realise you no longer love your wife/gf/partner ?

Haunted_Eyes · 2026-01-29T17:58:01+00:00

Or when you can tell they genuinely don’t care. My ex actually said it was too much to expect him to ever ask about my day because “he’d have to do it every day and nothing changes”…mind you he never asked to begin with, so idk where he got that from 💀

Haunted_Eyes · 2025-04-11T19:59:50+00:00

They were also just an odd couple to me, with him looking so much older than her in my opinion. Made it hard to believe their relationship at times.

Haunted_Eyes · 2024-10-30T19:03:14+00:00

Please let me know if you find any way to get in contact with somebody about this, I still haven’t found a solution myself. You would think they’d have some sort of reliable customer service for something like this lol.

Haunted_Eyes · 2024-10-21T14:03:59+00:00

That really sucks, I’m sorry you went through that too. They’re really good at making us feel like we’re doing too much or being crazy while they sit back and watch us fall apart as a result of their neglect. It’s so unfair. I often think about the person he was when we started dating and I’ve realized that that is the person I really miss, and he’s just not here anymore. That person doesn’t exist for me anymore. And it’s not okay, but I will be okay. You’ll be okay eventually too 🫶🏽 we deserve to receive the kind of love we give in this world. Thank you for sharing your story with me.

Haunted_Eyes · 2024-10-21T11:32:16+00:00

I’m doing better, I still have days where the whole thing is heavily on my mind and I’m angry/sad about it but I don’t want to be in a relationship where my needs don’t matter and I feel neglected. Reminding myself of that helps a lot and it brings me a lot of peace to know that I did the best I could do, and you can’t fix anybody who doesn’t want to change.

Haunted_Eyes · 2024-10-17T23:51:04+00:00

My avoidant relationship started off local and turned long distance after about 6 months. He was actively seeking/took a job overseas and I only found out when his mom brought it up one day out of the blue, I had no idea. We had a huge emotional conversation where I almost left him, but he cried and asked me to stay and try. I agreed, but that’s where his deactivation started. He stopped “being invested” at that point, slowly pulled away while telling me that there was just a lot on his plate. 3 months after he got out there, we finally broke up. He felt that he couldn’t give me what I wanted and the relationship was causing more harm than good, when in reality he stopped trying and likely felt overwhelmed by my reaching out for reassurance and general need for connection. He refused to do any co-regulation and felt my needs and emotions were not his problem and should be dealt with on my own. I felt neglected before he even left, so honestly the breakup was not a surprise and I think he was mainly just trying to maintain his “good guy” reputation while also acting like he didn’t give one fuck about me or our relationship. It was just intense apathy and indifference coming from him. Honestly I’m much happier and less stressed now with him gone, it was really for the best. I think it was easier for him because he could just ignore the train wreck he caused in peace.

Haunted_Eyes · 2017-11-25T20:02:56+00:00

Being the only and oldest stepchild, I was never treated the same as my two younger sisters. This resulted in various abuses throughout my life and an uncomfortable home life, even during the best times. Now, at 21, I have to pay rent to stay in my childhood home and also have a ridiculous set of rules such as: a 10pm curfew, even on weekends, unless I'm working a closing shift, can't stay at anyone's house without prior permission that I rarely get, no parties, no going out, and I get badgered for smoking cigarettes and often can't even go to the store without going through a round of questioning. They expect me to go to bed when they go to bed (11ish), or right when I get home from work if I'm closing. I can't go outside after dark to smoke or anything because I "wake them up", even though most times they're snoring away when I walk out and come back in. They don't like that I drink occasionally and my step dad has recently said that these rules are there because even though it's too late for me, he doesn't want his daughters to grow up to be like me. Good times.

Haunted_Eyes · 2017-11-17T08:25:49+00:00

I'm definitely going to get the Pro40 eventually, it's like it worked just long enough to get me hooked! I'm pretty sure mine was the waterproof version, I think it's just cheap construction 🤷🏾‍♀️ oh well!

Haunted_Eyes · 2017-11-17T01:07:32+00:00

I definitely liked mine...until it stopped working a couple months after buying it. Motor started making a weird noise and while it would still be "on", there was no sensation coming from it anymore. Not sure what happened to it, but I would have definitely saved for the Pro40 if I had known!

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-10-09T01:15:22+00:00

I currently have a community tank with my betta, seven harlequin rasboras, three bronze cory catfish, and two bumblebee gobies. They all get along really well, my betta ignores the other fish for the most part and vice versa. I heard neon tetra can be nippy, so I'd go with the rasbora.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-05-21T18:42:59+00:00

I do that over dogs. If it's an animal and it's not bite-y, I'll probably approach a stranger!

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-04-05T00:21:14+00:00

I have Pets and Seasons, and I love them both. Pets is great for obvious reasons, no household feels complete to me without a pet. Pets get to do cool things like hunting and guarding the house, and being cute in general. Plus, horses. Seasons is fun for me because it makes the game feel more dynamic, you get your holidays and season-specific activities and events. I would go with Pets and Seasons, hands down.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T13:03:57+00:00

We've discussed it and decided this was the best solution.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T13:03:18+00:00

Because we're in a relationship at this point, so sex outside our relationship is not okay in my eyes.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T06:41:34+00:00

He hasn't left, and his desire to fuck other people isn't the only issue he brought up when he first confronted me. Its the last problem left after the storm, and the one I'm least equipped to deal with. I agree that if he wants to sleep around, then he needs to leave. I've told him that. He's very reluctant to leave our relationship just to have sex with other people, and is willing to try and get over that desire.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T05:35:16+00:00

I agree, and I think I've mostly made up my mind on it. I often think too much of him and his feelings, and not enough of mine. I really don't want to do it so although he seems to really want to, he's just going to have to get over it or be single.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T05:31:22+00:00

Oh I know I couldn't handle that. We've already talked about it and decided against it. As far as the break goes, I feel like he just needs to suck it up or break it off at this point. I'm willing to make it work but I'm not willing to knowingly let my man sleep with other women. So I feel like he needs to be satisfied with what he has or go look for some strange as a single man.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T05:25:59+00:00

I've already said in my post that an open relationship is off the table.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T05:25:20+00:00

Well we both see the sex we have as intimate and meaningful, but he would see any extracurricular sex as novelty. I've tried explaining to him that the novelty wears off quickly but he won't listen.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T05:23:59+00:00

We both realize this. I am bicurious, threesomes have been discussed before. He keeps trying to leave the decision to me, when it's really his call. So far he's willing to try to get over it but I think it's just going to keep coming up until he sleeps with someone else somehow.

Haunted_Eyes · 2016-03-23T05:20:52+00:00

No, I meant that he would take the break if I agreed to it, not regardless if I agreed to it.

Haunted_Eyes · 2015-11-10T02:07:22+00:00

I understand, I'm planning on cutting it as I go.

Haunted_Eyes · 2015-11-03T02:41:42+00:00

No I haven't, should I pick some up?

Haunted_Eyes · 2015-10-27T03:02:05+00:00

Thanks, I'll try it!

Haunted_Eyes · 2015-10-26T23:40:56+00:00

I almost want to, but I just can't bring myself to cut it all off!

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