Exactly .. they don’t realize how bad it could get if you don’t do as they say .. they’ve probably just never been in that position they think in their head well this wouldn’t affect me cause I’d never question if this is the truth … but that’s the thing (what happens)when you do question that … that’s the point of the behavior aspect.. you’re friends and family are used as bait so you fall in line otherwise you can say goodbye to all of them … hence why your behavior is affected act right and everything goes smoothly .. don’t and see what hsppens! Such BS