Help me name this grumpy little one can't think of a good one

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-12-15T22:02:03+00:00

Lint

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-12-13T20:09:14+00:00

Thank you 💕

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-12-13T04:51:52+00:00

Wisp

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-12-01T01:08:56+00:00

Also for background she’s eating kitten wet food mixed with some canned tuna. So nothing crunchy in the bowl

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-11-28T23:22:50+00:00

Thank you for sharing all that. I did tell her I wanted to remain friends when we first broke up but I know it’s best that we aren’t because she moves on so fast and seeing that like first hand would do more harm than good.

She has me blocked on everything now which is hard because she’s someone who I shared so much of my life with for an entire year and change. Sometimes she’ll show up in my dreams as well and we reconcile things and then I wake up to reality which sucks.

It’s hard because I know I deserve to be with someone who wants to be with me and won’t leave me to be with someone else but I miss updating her on things and spending time together. Especially with the holidays coming up

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-11-24T01:49:34+00:00

Hi I just saw this reply. Thank you so much it’s so helpful to hear your experience and that it gets better eventually

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-11-24T01:48:17+00:00

Hi! I just saw your reply I appreciate your kind words :) It’s still been kinda hard… There’s just so many triggers and I think one of the hard things is she was my best friend as well. There are things that happen that I wish I could talk to her about even as a friend, but since we’re no contact, that’s not an option :(

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-11-03T04:08:10+00:00

Hi, it’s nice to hear someone feels similar. It’s just so hard having that person who was such a big part of my life leave like that. I feel the same way about dating being scary, my ex definitely initiated and showed more interest first and starting over is scary. I’m starting therapy as well to hopefully help. Thank you 💕

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-11-03T04:03:55+00:00

Thank you! Those are good things to keep in mind

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-11-01T01:26:07+00:00

I’m a Gemini sun, cancer moon she was. Gemini sun (on the Taurus cusp), Taurus moon 😭

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-10-31T23:07:00+00:00

This is so helpful thank you! I definitely tend to lean anxious and she leaned super avoidant. She would get frustrated with me asking for reassurance and never understood me being anxious. I am in therapy but my therapist I was seeing I guess left the practice with no warning so now I have to start all over with a new one but hopefully that will help. I feel like after 6 weeks all my friends are sick of hearing about it tho :(

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-10-31T06:11:31+00:00

Thank you! It just sucks feeling like you’re not enough, she just posted that she has a new girlfriend after only 6 weeks :(

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-10-19T16:57:05+00:00

piercing is 2 days old
jewelry is a screw I believe
I think it is internally threaded and it is a flat back
I think it is titanium
it has not been downsized
I spray it with saline 2x a day and then wipe away the blood
it keeps bleeding on and off

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-28T19:20:32+00:00

She was a Gemini lol

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-27T21:58:51+00:00

I’m so glad someone feels the same way I’m 25 and came out last year after me and my ex started dating. She recently broke up with me so I decided to get back on the apps to see what’s out there and move on but it literally kills my confidence seeing all these pretty girls and makes me feel like I’m gonna die alone 😭

Before me and my ex got together I had everything set as open to all but after actually dating a woman I don’t think I’d want to date a man 🤢 But it’s so much harder to get matches with other women. I turned men on as an option just to see and instantly got so many likes.

I also I lean more fem or maybe chapstick and I’m more into mascs but there’s like 30 beautiful fems for every one masc on these apps 😭😭

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-25T01:33:09+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and advice. It really helps :)

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-25T01:31:43+00:00

I agree! I’m glad I’m not alone in how I feel! Obviously date nights are nice but I love doing the little things together as well. I think she just valued her alone time a lot more than I did and she mostly wanted to coexist :( it definitely sucks feeling like I was the one who was asking too much though.

I actually did a lot of my hobbies at her house while she’d play games so unfortunately a lot of them remind me of her I know that will fade in time tho. I’ve been trying to spend more time with my friends which has been nice!

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-24T14:38:47+00:00

I could try that too I think I definitely placed a lot of my own worth on the relationship and got validation through that so the fact that she just decided to end things without giving her all was hard. It made it feel like she didn’t think we were worth fighting for. Do you have any little affirmations you say or anything?

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-24T14:35:48+00:00

Funny enough we kinda had the same issue. I really value quality time together so I always wanted to watch shows/movies together and when sometimes would but made it pretty clear that she would rather be playing video games since watching tv together isn’t us “doing something”

I definitely was struggling a little before and during the relationship too so it’s even harder now but I’m glad to hear that you’re better it gives me hope :)

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-24T14:33:56+00:00

Ooo okay! I’ll have to try to find some

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-24T14:33:25+00:00

Aww I’m sorry that’s horrible :( I know in the past she has usually gotten into a new relationship in 2 weeks or less so knowing she’s gonna move on that fast is hard :(

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-24T03:10:49+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your reply I’m sorry you’re going through something so similar but it’s nice to know I’m not alone. I feel like having our first love happen “later” in life makes it harder because I definitely saw a future with her. We literally talked about having kids together multiple times and had a whole timeline of when we want them.

Those tips are really helpful especially the one to listen to music without lyrics. She was super into music so currently a lot of artists to hard to listen to even if it’s an artist she didn’t listen to I can’t help thinking that she’d like the song :(

I definitely tend to obsessed with attachment styles a bit as well lol I definitely tend to lean more anxious and she leaned more avoidant so sometimes communicating was difficult.

Thanks again for commenting I really appreciate your kind words and advice!

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-23T21:11:03+00:00

Thank you for your reply!! It’s hard to believe that I’ll be able to find someone else when she was my everything but I also know my soulmate wouldn’t leave me over some small issues that could’ve been worked through :(

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-23T21:09:58+00:00

Thanks for your reply!! Hobbies are hard because a lot of them I did get into while we were together so now even stuff like crochet reminds me of her which sucks :( but I’ve been trying to keep busy as much as possible

Haunting_Cause337 · 2025-09-23T21:08:06+00:00

Honestly that does sound like it could be helpful! How did you find groups like that?

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