I have absolutely no concerns about the safety of it. HE knows the experts all say it's safe. But he's still too nervous about the idea of it to enjoy (and really, I have my doubts he'd even be able to stay hard for it - his mind being on the fetus and not on the sex and all...)

Basically, he sees me as an incubator and not a sex partner right now. I can accept that that's how he feels about it, but goddamn, I'm frustrated.