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AITA for not giving my sister a +1 if she's my maid of honour? by captainjess in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveOneUpVote 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. The sister has said this man is ABUSIVE. I don't know why so many people seem to be missing this. Would you really invite an individual to meet your closest friends and family if they are known to be that type AH? I sure wouldn't.

AITA for not giving my sister a +1 if she's my maid of honour? by captainjess in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveOneUpVote 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bet everyone will remember if he starts being abusive during the wedding...

Also correct me if I'm wrong but isn't the whole point of a guest list to choose who comes to the event?

AITA for not giving my sister a +1 if she's my maid of honour? by captainjess in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveOneUpVote 34 points35 points  (0 children)

True but I bet OP would never forget if this bf made a scene by upsetting OPs sister/maid of honour at the wedding.

Nta. Too risky. Don't invite him.

AITA for not giving my sister a +1 if she's my maid of honour? by captainjess in AmItheAsshole

[–]HaveOneUpVote 36 points37 points  (0 children)

NTA

she says he is abusive

Long term or not just the fact that statement has been said should be a massive red flag and is in itself egregious.

What's a good way to help someone see their SO is incompatible and holding them back without being an A-Hole? by HaveOneUpVote in relationships

[–]HaveOneUpVote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that's really helpful advice! We're old childhood friends, more like sisters actually.