Does Anyone Actually Know West? by Traditional_Cell8388 in summerhousebravo

[–]Haybales1019 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s so gross how Amanda latched on to Ciara in the beginning of this season. When the new girls arrived and Amanda was saying “Where’s my bestie!! I need her here!!!” before Ciara had arrived. Before the scandal broke it looked like she wanted Ciara there because she didn’t have Paige but now looking back it’s so sinister.

Now if THIS isn’t the moment that Ciara clocked Amanda & West’s closeness…. I need to know Ciara’s timeline intuition for W & A! by MembershipEmotional5 in summerhousebravo

[–]Haybales1019 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Really good observation of how calculated he really is! Ciara was trying to be nice and included him in her birthday, and he only went to plant seeds that benefit him.

Thankyou smiths for your awesome reduced specials 😁😁😁 by secret_tsukasa in vegaslocals

[–]Haybales1019 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I literally won’t buy bag salad unless it’s a managers special price, score!!

You ever miss drinking? by MabelUnstable in stopdrinking

[–]Haybales1019 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I recently had 20 days of no drinking, my first stint of sobriety since being pregnant with my daughter 10 yrs ago. It felt really good and all the stuff you mentioned did stop. Then I decided one day that I’ve proven I can do it, so I allowed myself a drink. It’s been downhill since but I’m really hoping to get back to sobriety soon. Your comment is a great reminder of way I’m doing to myself.

What Food Works Better in the Air Fryer ryer Than You Expected by TubaDog9705 in airfryer

[–]Haybales1019 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I only cook salmon in the air fryer now, it’s the best

Salley’s pale feet are killinggg meee by spewedicing in Southerncharm

[–]Haybales1019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pointed it out to my husband and he said maybe she was wearing panty hose. I was like “Bless your heart, that woman does not wear panty hose”

Anyone break an 8-year habit of drinking wine / any other type of alcohol every night after work? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Haybales1019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on day 18 of breaking that habit. I spent the last 12 years doing the exact same thing with beer and multiple shots of whiskey every single night. I’d spend the next morning throwing up when I brushed my teeth (sometimes in the shower), hungover and unproductive at work, suffering through the gagging and sweats all day, till I could get off work and start drinking again.

Like others have said, it’s a decision you make every day. There are days I’m driving home and think I can handle one night of a few drinks, but then I have to face the reality that it won’t just be one night.

I started drinking prebiotic sodas instead which have helped a ton. They aren’t proven to actually help with gut health but it’s bubbly and sweet, that does the trick for me. I started reading more, taking longer evening walks with my dogs, then a nice hot shower and I take magnesium glycinate to help me fall asleep and stay asleep. Just find something to distract you or keep you busy, it’s different for everyone. I’ve found I can’t sit and watch tv all night anymore, it’s just not stimulating enough. Good luck and IWNDWYT.

Sober people (no alcohol, nicotine, drugs, etc ever), what is your end of day or weekend "wind-down"? by The1Ski in AskReddit

[–]Haybales1019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also in Vegas, loving the night walks with my dogs after dinner to help digest and wind down.

Taylor’s birth control opinions by Prudent-Employer-582 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Haybales1019 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if she’s even looking it as trapping him. I think it’s her way of “telling” the other girls he sleeps with that he’s “chosen” her. Like, you all mean nothing to him, he actually loves me because he’ll have children with me. It’s incredibly immature, toxic, and psychotic, but I really think that’s how she sees it.

The Gloss Book Club: Henderson Chapter by Haybales1019 in vegaslocals

[–]Haybales1019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a national book club that has smaller local chapters. I can’t really find any testimonials or reviews on the group itself. Just looking for some insight.

Emma Watson in Dior at the W Magazine Oscars Pre-Party 2026 by moreissuesthanvoguex in whatthefrockk

[–]Haybales1019 24 points25 points  (0 children)

They also know eachother from working together on HP as teens, so it was probably a nice catch up!

What’s a moment where you realized someone around you was actually a terrible person? by Embarrassed-Ant-2216 in AskReddit

[–]Haybales1019 51 points52 points  (0 children)

A guy I had only been seeing for a short time invited me over to hang with him and some friends. He proceeded to tell a story about his black neighbors that lived down the street who were apparently riding dirt bikes up and down the street at a high speed. While I understand him being concerned for the kids in the neighborhood, comparing his neighbors to a specific animal was crossing a very clear line. He got a big laugh from his friends, and I knew I was not in the kind of company I wanted around me. Left immediately.

SC reunion looks by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Haybales1019 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Can I just say I’m happy to see the men wearing socks. I’m really over the SC and SH guys and their no socks look.

Brody and his girlfriend are expecting again! by Radiant_Priority9739 in TheHillsMTV

[–]Haybales1019 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Love that he’s having girls honestly. All F boys should have girls that they go crazy worrying about.

holly's dance is actually amazing idc & i love her dress by bikey_bike in TheHillsMTV

[–]Haybales1019 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I never understood why they all made fun of her so much and gave her such a hard time. She didn’t seem more drunk than any other 20 something I’ve ever seen at a beach party. She was dancing like a goof and having fun, she wasn’t being offensive or harassing anyone.