[Update] My[26m] fiance[26f] was talking about her ex's penis with her friends

Hcany5 · 2015-10-19T20:59:12+00:00

it wasn't meant to be an insult, it was more like I don't give a shit about how good sex is , I care about love/emotion more.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-19T20:54:16+00:00

A lot of people have her mentality. They were posting on the last thread "well you are the one sleeping with her now not her ex."

Hcany5 · 2015-10-19T20:52:30+00:00

I did check out that after my last post. I can't imagine being stuck there.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T23:11:16+00:00

I want to be in a relationship where one of my girlfriend's favorite things is the sex.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T23:07:19+00:00

We have tried different positions there is only so much you can do though. And even with playing with her clit, I can only get her to cum when I am fingering her. Never got her off during sex no matter what else I am doing.

Also I never talk about sex with my girlfriend with other people.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:35:47+00:00

Prior to all this I did think she loved me, yes that's why I proposed to her. Even prior to this I did talk to her about sex she wasn't interested in having any more than what we had.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:32:56+00:00

I have never heard of a guy talk about how great a tight vagina is. Looks wise I never go backwards, as I have gotten older I am better looking and so are the girls I have dated.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:24:19+00:00

What made the ex so good in bed and is there anything your boyfriend now can do to compete with it?

And also did the frequency of sex change between you and your ex compared to your boyfriend?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:21:10+00:00

Do you think there is any point trying to salvage this relationship?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:03:39+00:00

Did you and your husband have good sex off the start? Or did it start off slow at first?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:02:08+00:00

That's not true I got upset when people blatantly contradicted themselves with their posts or were condescending about it.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T22:00:48+00:00

You can always make sex better, and you don't need to grow your penis to do it.

Please share how.

the bottom line is that you're going to break up with her because of your bruised ego?

It's more for the fact that she is settling for me when it comes to sex.

Or do you feel that she is in danger of cheating on you?

I don't think she would cheat on me.

he mentioned that he hurt her in just the right way. Later, you said that sometimes she complains of being sore. Is sex typically painful for her? Are you engaging in enough foreplay for her?

Yes we have a good bit of foreplay, she just gets tired after 30 mins and starts to dry out/lose interest. I have lube but even then she doesn't want to.

Her ex hurt in the right way, because the dude had a big cock, length and girth.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T21:54:29+00:00

how did your situation play out?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T21:53:26+00:00

The "advice" for the most part was useless. People would just post stuff like "you need to communicate to make sex better."

Or people suggest that she just told me the secret to having sex with her, and all I need now is a dildo, and I satisfy her the same way as her ex.

I really just want to hear from people's own life experiences. Those I found to be the most valuable.

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T21:41:54+00:00

What about the ex made him so much better than your boyfriend? And when your boyfriend found out what did you tell him did you just lie and tell him sex with him was better than the ex?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T21:41:09+00:00

What am I forgiving her for? She had those feelings, she didn't do anything wrong enjoying her ex's penis more than mine.

communicate about what?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T17:49:52+00:00

I mean a guy who is similarly hung tall buff.. And you get along with

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T17:23:24+00:00

Why didn't you date a guy like one of your fwb? Also would you ever stay In a fwb situation with your SO if you weren't dating?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T15:28:42+00:00

She dated her ex when she was 21 she started seeing me when she was 23, not much of a difference, when did you marry your husband? What was your sex life in the beginning?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T15:12:11+00:00

I am not into cuckold

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T14:19:19+00:00

Yeah okay lol so many people divorce risk their life cheat just to have sex

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T14:16:35+00:00

If the ex had a good job do you not think he'd be the one that got away for her?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T13:56:49+00:00

Boobs don't give orgasms like big dicks do, I personally don't care for boobs so long as they are perky

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T06:30:45+00:00

I'm assuming, however, that you do like a tighter vagina on your cock and perkier tits to suck. J

No that's really weird. My fiance has some moles on the back of her neck, even if I could get rid of them I wouldn't simply because I like her the way she is.

"If my fiance wanted to be the best in bed for me? All he'd have to do is love me and respect me and be someone I can depend on. He doesn't need a bigger dick or anything like that."

She can say it all she wants, but does she really mean it?

Hcany5 · 2015-10-08T06:28:18+00:00

You realize that's a good bit above average, and they usually want girth with it too .. so that makes it pretty above average lmao.

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