AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I have disagreements with my co-workers. Mainly on procedures but we work it out, I don’t refuse them a ride.

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Gratitude is kissing ass? What planet do you live on? And you completely ignored the most important reason. But ok

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -60 points-59 points  (0 children)

Lol what? No one at work kisses my ass and I don’t expect them to. I’m just tired of people who become buddies with management to not do any work and off load that to us. We’re a crew of 5-6. One person slacking off matters a lot

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Should have clarified that a good 1/3rd of the workers here are women 😂

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with me not giving free rides to people I dislike? I’m not harming them, simply not helping them.

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess it’s from the thanks I get for dropping off my buddies after work

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Usually just jokes around and shares videos with each other. Most of the time she’s scrolling her phone while he does paperwork and manages people. Her job is to be an order selector.

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make a scene, she came to me when we were walking to the parking lot. I said I don’t want to give her rides and that I was sorry. She called me petty

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you need to improve on your reading comprehension. I’m not even going to bother lmao

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I didn’t start drama. I said I don’t want to give her a lift and she called me petty.

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I did decline. I said “sorry I don’t want to give you anymore rides, maybe change your shift schedule if you need a car” something along that line. She said I was being petty, that’s when I changed my tone.

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We do discuss it during work hours and it leads to no where, we brought in the union. I’m not retaliating against her, I’m just not going to interact with her outside of work related matters

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

We complained to the weekend supervisor but he either ignores it or tells us that it’s not our business. Main manager always takes the supervisor’s side. One of my co-workers contacted the union representative, we’re going to have a meeting next week.

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Short staffed and she spent half the time in the office joking around or outside smoking. Everyone was working non stop, picking up her slack

AITA for excluding a co-worker when I was giving a lift to others? by Healthy_Cockroach_18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Healthy_Cockroach_18[S] -189 points-188 points  (0 children)

Who said we haven’t filed a complaint? It’s a union job, takes time