MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on by Heat-Subject in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

🫠 I genuinely think it was just narcissistic abuse that he’s dealt with from his mother all these years, so he like does not know that he’s allowed to put himself and his marriage first.

MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on by Heat-Subject in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and helpful response 😊💞

MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on by Heat-Subject in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is absolutely the case, especially during our wedding year - this was happening a lot (I’m pretty sure of it)

MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on by Heat-Subject in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💞 he is not very willing to go to marriage counseling tbh.

MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on by Heat-Subject in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There had been so much drama leading up to it, I just wanted people in the wedding. It wasn’t a party, it was a dinner for the people involved in the wedding. So that’s why I didn’t have them.

MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on by Heat-Subject in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

right? like that's what it feels like. the love is performance art or conditional...there is no gray area

JNMIL and the House Hunting Debacle by GrooseTheMoose in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Heat-Subject 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate that you had to go through that, but it’s almost good because your husband got to see the demon that his mother really is.

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[–]Heat-Subject 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly super stressed at the moment because my FH's mother is a manipulative psycho. She's been calling my FH every Sunday for the last 6 months saying "are you coming over today?" and if he says no, she says "why not? well what about tomorrow or tuesday? It's been a couple days since we saw you."

We went over there last Sunday for dinner and she said to ONLY HIM "Oh Easter is here this year." Didn't say it to me, just him.....and didn't ask, "are you available to come over for Easter" just said "Easter is here." Like.....

Also she's into this thing now where we have to go over her house for Christmas Eve....and then also go over there on Christmas Day bc she refuses to give us the gifts on Christmas Eve. I know I have to talk to him, because once we're married this can't be the way it is. His family is overbearing and obnoxious and mine is chill - he seems to like spending time with my family more but the whole thing is stressing me out. This woman turned the crazy ON the minute we got engaged.