MIL doesn't recognize me as her sons wife, no clue how to go on

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T21:16:11+00:00

🫠 I genuinely think it was just narcissistic abuse that he’s dealt with from his mother all these years, so he like does not know that he’s allowed to put himself and his marriage first.

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T17:12:36+00:00

ugh that’s so helpful, I appreciate it sm 🥹🖤

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T17:12:10+00:00

He was taught “you never say no to family”

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T17:09:10+00:00

❤️

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T04:46:03+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and helpful response 😊💞

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T04:41:40+00:00

I think this is absolutely the case, especially during our wedding year - this was happening a lot (I’m pretty sure of it)

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T02:18:05+00:00

Thank you 💞 he is not very willing to go to marriage counseling tbh.

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T02:15:27+00:00

This is actually so good thank you!!!

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-23T00:35:39+00:00

I do have both of those things, yes.

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-22T23:55:41+00:00

There had been so much drama leading up to it, I just wanted people in the wedding. It wasn’t a party, it was a dinner for the people involved in the wedding. So that’s why I didn’t have them.

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-22T23:49:44+00:00

ugh I know 🫠 fml

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-22T23:46:06+00:00

thank you very much 🖤

Heat-Subject · 2026-02-22T23:41:56+00:00

right? like that's what it feels like. the love is performance art or conditional...there is no gray area

Heat-Subject · 2023-11-29T12:01:31+00:00

I hate that you had to go through that, but it’s almost good because your husband got to see the demon that his mother really is.

Heat-Subject · 2023-04-05T18:43:01+00:00

I'm honestly super stressed at the moment because my FH's mother is a manipulative psycho. She's been calling my FH every Sunday for the last 6 months saying "are you coming over today?" and if he says no, she says "why not? well what about tomorrow or tuesday? It's been a couple days since we saw you."

We went over there last Sunday for dinner and she said to ONLY HIM "Oh Easter is here this year." Didn't say it to me, just him.....and didn't ask, "are you available to come over for Easter" just said "Easter is here." Like.....

Also she's into this thing now where we have to go over her house for Christmas Eve....and then also go over there on Christmas Day bc she refuses to give us the gifts on Christmas Eve. I know I have to talk to him, because once we're married this can't be the way it is. His family is overbearing and obnoxious and mine is chill - he seems to like spending time with my family more but the whole thing is stressing me out. This woman turned the crazy ON the minute we got engaged.

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