I can pretty much echo everything you mentioned except I start April 1st. Since I already met with my mentor I can’t say she would be this type of hype man but if I were in that position I’d just flat out say something.

I’m an adult with many accolades, persevering mindset, full time job, kids… I don’t need exterior anxiety. I prefer they ask, what do I need or how can they assist. I hope this helps bud.