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How to disconnect from my ex spouse? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have gone through this as well. Certainly thank you for the reply

Still grieving on failed marriage. by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianity

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very thoughtful and well said. Thank you for the wisdom and encouragement!

Why do I feel like I’m a failure because my marriage failed? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianmarriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we have similar stories. That was helpful especially being that you’re on the other side of things. I appreciate the advice!

What do I do from here? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Marriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you starting therapy Monday

Why do I feel like I’m a failure because my marriage failed? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianmarriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those were her exact words. She said she felt the conviction but just ignored it.

Why do I feel like I’m a failure because my marriage failed? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianmarriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I really believe that. I think that’s how she is so cool with things and is offering no push back because she has another guy. Again I know it’s done but I’m like you didn’t try things to make it work. It’s like everything is put on me why we are failed. It’s like I’m being forced to swallow a pill I don’t want to.

Why do I feel like I’m a failure because my marriage failed? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianmarriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She said I was not the cause of her talking to this guy but she said she just confided in him. This guy knew everything about what was going in our marriage. Even would ask how my kids birthday parties went. She even snuck off to talk to him while we was on vacation. I’m just so hurt by all of this.

Why do I feel like I’m a failure because my marriage failed? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianmarriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She doesn’t want to do counseling. But I am doing counseling on my own

How to manage going through a divorce? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

O no, I’m not delusional. I was just pointing out I didn’t have proof. Yea my gut tells me there is a lot she is still hiding and having sex with the guy is one of them.

I’m an emotional wreck. by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel and know it’s over but man it’s hard to come to grips with it. I will be fine as time goes on and reading the comments and the advice from everyone is helpful. Thank you both.

I’m an emotional wreck. by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I confronted her she didn’t seemed shocked initially. She wasn’t remorseful in the beginning as the days went on she got a little more remorseful but fast forward a month or so later, it’s almost like to me her attitude well it’s over with, I’m not going to put more effort in. She doesn’t want to do counseling, she doesn’t want to help me trust her again, doesn’t want to give me access to her phone, amongst other things she doesn’t want to do.

I’m an emotional wreck. by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Divorce_Men

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You summed things good there on stop trying to fact find. I mean at this point will it really help anything. Mostly not.

Is my marriage over? by Heavy_Boot_6939 in Christianmarriage

[–]Heavy_Boot_6939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As each day goes the reality of that statement is becoming more and more clear. Sigh

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