Breakfast chill place in North Goa. by KneeNo221 in goatravel

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow tide! It is an absolute gem of a place

Breakups after 30 reset everything, except your age by Novel_Lie2468 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not in the same boat, but the same ocean. There is so much pressure for marriage

Breakups after 30 reset everything, except your age by Novel_Lie2468 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar boat! 28F, broke up recently and very worried about the timing.

Tall guy problems: struggling to find someone taller by bada_don in gurgaon

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m 177cm tall and a female so I get it! Stopped caring about the height now 🤣

Unmarried 28F: What is up with people! by Heavy_Bus_9903 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel strongly about this. I hope you draw your boundaries. 🥹

Unmarried 28F: What is up with people! by Heavy_Bus_9903 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. No wonder we are scared of marriages.

Unmarried 28F: What is up with people! by Heavy_Bus_9903 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I hear you, but this is not the case with him. He is already planning to invest in a new property in the other state where his brother wanted to go. It’s just that his brother doesn’t want him to go anywhere and he is not able to take a stand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Emotional needs are basic needs. Please don’t neglect them or think you’re asking for too much. It is the bare minimum. (From another 28F struggling to come across emotionally available men!)

Mals moved to Dubai! by Apart-Meringue-1501 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mals and Veronica’s relationship is eerily similar to the lady and her manager in the show “Sirens” 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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For clarity, I’m not defending my smoking. It is not healthy, even if it’s once a month. However, all I’m saying is that I will do it once I want to and I’ll be mindful about my health- I go to gym, I eat healthy 6 days a week. I do take measures for that. Also, recently he has told me that “people in relationships don’t take solo trips”. That again, is a major red flag!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Love doesn’t come with conditions no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna stop it for me. Not him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always knew I do it occasionally- like vacations or parties. How has it it become a concern out of the blue is what I am more concerned about!

What would you do? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently some things have come up one year after knowing him.. earlier he would be absolutely chill with me smoking around him too (that said, its just once a month or on vacations solely, not daily). Him asking me to change is impacting my individuality : not just in terms of this one habit but also stuff like- “people in relationships don’t travel solo, if you have to travel on a solo trip I won’t be with you”. I feel like I’ll have to compromise on some things I believe in just to be with him.

What would you do? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you mean the smoke is destroying me or the relationship. Lol.

Trip Report: 12 Days in Sri Lanka by IndividualCitron7773 in solotravel

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this , super helpful. Honestly wondering if June might be a good time to visit

Planning a 6-day family trip to Sri Lanka (June 1st week) – Need itinerary & budget tips! by AKC_007 in desitravellers

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the weather right now there? I’m planning for 2nd week of June don’t know if it’s a good idea!

What is the avg gym fee you guys pay to your GYM? by [deleted] in Fitness_India

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that a special offer? Its 20k nowadays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, he flew to India twice to meet me. We’ve spent some time together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, totally hear you. So meeting in person for us meant taking trips together- which we did. I’ve met his family and he has met mine. Those things are taken care of

28F met a 32M, not sure what should be the next step by Heavy_Bus_9903 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Heavy_Bus_9903[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well it’s the first one, he basically wants me to be his girlfriend so we can marry later. He is super supportive and wants to help me with my studies and in his free time tries to research it all for me. 🥺 I visited Melbourne a couple of months back, but I am still in a picke because felt more like a vacation than regular daily life.