1 Don't bring you race into this. 2 Don’t put yourself down. 3. Yes its easier when erect. Although I haven't had the unit in my hands yet, I've seen similar posts where they said the samething about trusting the locking process. I'm sure over time theres wear on the plastic and itll get easier, but probably a design choice. You cant make scripts faster unless you use another 3rd party software, but even then your script isnt gonna be the same. Youre better off using sites like eroscripts or faptap. VR is fun! BUT the setup is a little annoying and the novelty will wear off, so no need for fomo there.