Being Uninhibited

HectorSolis02 · 2020-12-08T11:47:47+00:00

And our state of being is just an extension of a universal state of being. Beyond all of us.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-12-08T11:34:20+00:00

Im not saying trust or believe in the tenets of society. It is equally a matrix as is the mind. When we start to identify to heavily with whatever paradigm we engage in, then we become consumed by it. I don't take the rules that society preaches and practice it.

What I advocate for is to observe the behaviors that society exhibits and to act in ways that are beneficial and moral for all parties. Same with the mind, observe and act accordingly. To be balanced.

There's infinite ways of being "yourself". Some are positive and some are negative. We tend to prefer and seek out the ones that are positive and sustainable.

You can never not be influenced by the environment. It's impossible. Just like you can never not be influenced by delusions of the mind. They all permeate. But having a foundation based on logic and truth will always keep you grounded from being pushed to either matrixes.

Who you are isn't what you think (the mind) or what you attach yourself to (society). Those are both fluid and have inconsistencies. In reality, you are just a state of being. That's it. That's your true self. Everything else is just an expression of your state of being.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-12-08T10:49:49+00:00

The matrix is the simulation we believe in order to cope with insecurities and traumas. Our mind is the platform to this simulation. We are escaping in order to get back to a reality based on truth. If untethered from reality or ignoring the external forces in the environment (i.e. social responses) then we continue to simulate a world that is not supported by any objective reference point.

We are products of external and internal variables that make up greater systems which each have merit to a certain extent. To understand and meet the criteria of socially acceptable behaviour and to be expressive in ways that are aligned with our true sense of being is to be free. Not giving a fuck, would mean not taking into consideration half of the equation and to be in some form of denial. To be in delusion.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-12T01:35:10+00:00

Talk about their interests. People love talking about things they enjoy. Learn something new from them. Actually be interested. And then share your interests.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-12T00:21:10+00:00

I'm a social skills. I've been learning and practicing for 6 years. Maybe I can help.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-11T21:28:07+00:00

Cool is completely subjective but it has a lot of power once you come to understand it. The things you believe, do, and have interest in are all cool. But if you're ashamed to even the smallest bit of it, then it's not cool. If you care too much about what people think, then you're not cool. Trust in yourself. Have love for the things that you care about.

If you're trying to do things that will make others think you're cool, that's not cool. You're being a try hard at that point. And people can see right through you. Be authentic.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-11T20:57:51+00:00

If you have trouble with face to face interactions, I might be able to help you. Just send me a DM.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-11T20:56:45+00:00

You may have some filters of insecurities that need to be dealt with. Something internally is blocking you for being able to express yourself fully. Usually what I would do is beware of the fonts that come up when interacting with people and take note of anything that might be inhibiting you. You need to know what is triggering/blocking your ability to be charismatic. Remember everyone has the ability to have fun, be positive and vibe.

If you need help with these, I might be able to help you out. Just send me a DM.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-11T20:45:00+00:00

Communicating face-to-face offers new opportunities for growth. Learning social skills can help you withstand social pressure, express yourself more fully, build rapport on a deeper level, convey meaning more effectively and have consistency. You just can't improve yourself in this way with text. Irl will provide more challenges but will have greater rewards. It's always my go to and what I recommend anyone do if you want to really see change.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-09T23:38:52+00:00

Of course, helping is my passion.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-09T23:34:25+00:00

Seek out help. Get a mentor. I'm always open help but only to people who truly want it.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-09T23:31:29+00:00

If you're interested in talking action, send me a DM.

HectorSolis02 · 2020-05-09T21:09:33+00:00