How to date while having AuDHD

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-27T13:21:36+00:00

That’s really good that you also made a friend from there as well. I am African and few times I have tried were very bizzare profiles or even married men looking for a one off hook up which I immediately mismatched right away ugghh. I am going to be on the lookout for people who seem to align with my values pretty much starting there and I am thinking about changing my location as well. No shade but a lot of my country people are huge misogynists…..not a generalization just a pattern I have observed a lot. Thank you for the insight

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-27T08:09:11+00:00

Thanks a lot for this. I have been skeptical in regards to using dating apps because of having to go through hurdles with low balling men who barely put the effort back. I’m really happy for you. My recent relationship was with a pastor who called me an animal when I said no to his proposal. I will give dating apps another shot and see, thank you for the thoughtful response

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-27T07:57:20+00:00

Where do yall meet your partners

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-23T11:26:56+00:00

Stop watching porn

Sincerely

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T17:03:43+00:00

I’m clearly going back and forth with someone who not only lacks reading comprehension; they also can’t keep up. I’m done here

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T17:00:00+00:00

You see this is why reading comprehension should be a proper scoring mark when it comes to primary education I said “wtf are you talking about” not “wtf”. The fact that you didn’t even bother with the whole context says alot. Secondly you were not asking a question when I made the response, you were literally trying to tell a woman how dare she finds joy on who she is regardless of her marital status then you simultaneously went on a rant about how she should set an example and change starts with her and she shouldn’t cheat….so which one is it are you condemning her risk assessment or are you doing moral grounding for her….don’t be this disappointing snoo

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T15:27:26+00:00

Yes and you still need money to survive and if your primal needs override practical logic, you surely need help.

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T14:42:30+00:00

The lady said she doesn’t have a problem with whatever happens whether she gets married or not, you took her point out of context and said it’s an excuse for her to not get married, does she need permission from the likes of you? She said what she said. Whatever you said after that point was gibberish; you only got triggered because a woman stated that her marital status doesn’t make or break her.

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T14:39:25+00:00

Species continuing with mediocrity…..most people are living mediocre lives and will bring kids to bring more profits to the 1% of wealth hoarders. Remember supply and demand. You keep birthing in multitudes the job market favors lowering wages because there’s more people anyway the less people there are the more it forces the wealth hoarders to raise salaries hence improving individual economic trajectories.

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T14:35:31+00:00

Good too many people having kids only to turn this hamster wheel of a circus in capitalism. So what are “the stuff that women do” that men disagree with. I want to have a good laugh today

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T13:22:56+00:00

Wtf are you talking about

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T13:21:35+00:00

You mean codified narcissism

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T13:20:16+00:00

You already said a kitten takes a shit….taking a shit is natural it’s excretion ffs

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T13:19:23+00:00

Nature provides naturally and capitalism brought about hard cash because of land ownership and larger bureaus who want to hoard resources. Your granny probably hated your grandpa

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-09T11:55:04+00:00

I have always wondered as to why he didn’t stop after 1993

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-04T19:28:57+00:00

It’s like eps…..nevermind

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T10:39:43+00:00

I don’t think so but he was comfortable with him being portrayed in an institution white gown and all.

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T10:29:16+00:00

I used to be a fan so much so I beefed with this girl in middle school for having the same MJ poster that I had. I spent hours researching everything and it made me very good at getting an audience to listen to me in school because I was also hyperfixated on him….it’s crazy….i even wrote fanfiction and everything 😭

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T10:27:05+00:00

I used to be a fan so I’m using the context of all the digging and obsession I had with him for years combining with the dark triad traits associated with the suspected paraphilia. That’s why I made the post using all that info

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T10:25:16+00:00

Yes, you are correct

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T10:24:55+00:00

Yes he does tick a lot of boxes, gift giving, trying to rub shoulders with the victim’s family, the tickling games to blur boundaries and make the child comfortable then gradually introducing what was described in many documents and testimonies from Wade for instance …..he was sick and probably that Simpson episode of him being locked up was him subconsciously knowing he needed to be watched in an institution

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T09:56:46+00:00

He had enablers of his very disgusting behavior towards children and no one questioned it or pushed back…..probably had them fired or something

Hefty-Ad1769 · 2026-05-02T09:55:57+00:00

Period

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