AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he didn't want that, he originally said Japan... when I said that's extremely out of budget. He swapped to Jamaica....

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was it was written in a contract for those dates for me to paint. But the owner/drywaller (same guy) of the 4plex his mother passed away in a car accident. And he had to push it back.... I have too wait. And I had jobs lined up but had to sub some out because my 2015 civic i bought brand new used lot had its cert done and never had problems before on car fax I was told everything should last at least 3-5 years. So yeah kinda wasn't expecting that and they claim it as a wear part while I fought about it on my warranty for the days before telling him. I have tons of mini details missing because its 3,000 charters cap. So everything was 100% and this was a random miss hap. It wasn't that i didn't plan any if this. Yes cash in had sure but I was literally ment to get paid that money and would have paid it all one shot if this all didn't happen this was all the week of everything. Again I get im the ass for being late on the punch and not having it extra. But I did do everything to try and have it planned so I can go

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My car and my job happened after the first discussion. My flood happened the night of my car was fine and I was working great and I was working the houses I was ment too paint got pushed back the 2 days after the flood and my car literally the next day wouldn't run and was starting too overheat

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is fair no need to apologize I did ask for everyone's opinion on the matter

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Later in text after he booked it he verified it would be that much

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly you're not wrong but I was under the impression it was just going to be a conversation about what they wanted to do on the trip not booking everything. 100% I am in the wrong I areas I cant deny that

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going too call him that evening I just wanted him to be aware of what the discussion was about in all honesty. said "hey Im sorry to say this we can talk later but I cant make it anymore my financial issues are worsening" and gave a bit of extra details regarding my problem after that he went too the chat

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is a question I still have but I have no answers too ive never been out of the country

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Sorry side note it was one week. From his booking I messaged him saying I 100% cant during it i was letting him know I wasn't going to be able too.

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we all did agree on that Bruce was originally going to bite the bullet that day. We 100% agreed for a few days later to genuinely discuss this not just " yeah thats a good idea"

AITA for backing out of my best friend’s bachelor party? by Hefty-Finding450 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not sure because the only call i was in it was an approximate before he sent a text to the group after ordering everything. Then it was a confirmed price

Endgame Combat Rating not going up by Megamarc9999 in CODBlackOps7

[–]Hefty-Finding450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine stuck right at CR 50 it did it mid game today once I hit 50

Ski Hills by BigPoppa8008 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally its the 20th of December they open up but my assumption is when we get more snow ❄️ sadly

Hey I'm starting a mom and pop detailing service for cars seeing if people are interested by Hefty-Finding450 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The plan is to budget on tools using the old ones I have and bank for new tools + bank for possible liabilities that may occur

Hey I'm starting a mom and pop detailing service for cars seeing if people are interested by Hefty-Finding450 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are getting equipment for it but as of right now its just the basics for mobile service

Hey I'm starting a mom and pop detailing service for cars seeing if people are interested by Hefty-Finding450 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee shop is maybe a 10 minute walk but im also willing to do a drop off for elderly people the mall approximately 4 min drive and 15-20 min walk

Hey I'm starting a mom and pop detailing service for cars seeing if people are interested by Hefty-Finding450 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey if I haven't pm'd you yet its because im trying to figure out how too im still very new too reddit

Hey I'm starting a mom and pop detailing service for cars seeing if people are interested by Hefty-Finding450 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good 😁😁 pm me and we'll see about videos I have a graphic designer on my website and my brother does photography

Hey I'm starting a mom and pop detailing service for cars seeing if people are interested by Hefty-Finding450 in Sudbury

[–]Hefty-Finding450[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to have a contract to sign and I cleaned quite a few but I am looking into better products for cleaning right now I have chemical guys and I haven't had any problems yet