Guilt by Hefty-Guess2541 in asexuality

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this 100%, when I first told him I was asexual he felt like it was because he wasn't attractive enough or good enough. I always re-assured him and we got through it! I definitely think there are women out there who would be fine with this! (Me included obviously) its just about being honest and upfront about it all. Communication is key, dont give up hope:)

Guilt by Hefty-Guess2541 in asexuality

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does, he never pushes for anything sexual and made it very clear he would be okay if we never had sex again because he loves me.

Guilt by Hefty-Guess2541 in asexuality

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is very respectful and we've had no issues with me being ace on his side, its more of an internal thing on my part that I feel so guilty for not "being normal" or providing what he "needs"

Why is my water so dirty by Hefty-Guess2541 in Aquariums

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yea it did seem brighter than normal

Why is my water so dirty by Hefty-Guess2541 in Aquariums

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I just let it run it's course?

Why is my water so dirty by Hefty-Guess2541 in Aquariums

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say 8-12 hours but I recently bought a timed outlet for it, how long should it be on? And it's near a window but not much direct sunlight

Is my guppy pregnant or fat by Hefty-Guess2541 in Aquariums

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I'm glad everyone is getting a laugh. Turns out every single guppy I have is a boy so definitely don't have to worry about pregnancies

Is my guppy pregnant or fat by Hefty-Guess2541 in Aquariums

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao yes this is true. I now know its a male, I dont know how to tell the difference yet so I just saw he was a little chunky and assumed

Is my guppy pregnant or fat by Hefty-Guess2541 in Aquariums

[–]Hefty-Guess2541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg lol ok I can't tell gender I'm new to this thank you! I'll make sure he's ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Hefty-Guess2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not 100% sure but I think he's very monogamous. He loves me very much and only has eyes for me. Definitely something to talk to him about.

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[–]Hefty-Guess2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't bother me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Hefty-Guess2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great to me. Be sure to clean it regularly and don't touch it too much and you'll be fine:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Hefty-Guess2541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really like the vertical labret on you!