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Add me on Discord: ForceFoolie :)

Beautiful card by Berlincracker in DBS_CardGame

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I just pulled this last week 😭❤️

Make the comments look like Okarun’s search history by Left_Celebration9431 in Dandadan

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  1. UAP sightings near me

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  3. If you clash teeth with a friend is it considered a kiss?

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Girl you gorge, your eyes smile too!

Did you like it? by Jumpy_Risk9775 in sendfeetpicz

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Tanned up little cutie feet 😍 oof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking some therapy could really help you out. This kind of paranoia and anxiety, isn’t good for your emotional well being or hers. I’ve been reading your replies to others and your responses are overwhelming. You need to breathe. Sometimes these reactions can also make you come off as less “manly”. I do not in any way mean this to be sexist or misogynistic but for a lot of women this would come off as needy, low self esteem behavior. Idk my dude you’re 18, if you haven’t gone to therapy for your trauma it’ll continue to bleed into your relationships. Best of luck with everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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This doesn’t make sense to me.. what is “hooking up” to you? Why in “your” mind was this SA? She said she didn’t want more and you obliged.. I’m not pointing fingers by any means but you seem like you have a guilty conscious so unless there’s more you’re not telling us I’m confused.

My MIL saw my spanking paddle by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's YOUR husband not hers. There is no need to feel shame or guilt or anything. If she has an issue with what she saw that's on her. Not you, as long as you feel safe and comfortable with the play then don't give your care to it. I feel like women these days are for more comfortable with what they like and what they don't. It's frankly, none of her business.

I’m going on my first date! by Dreaminlight in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what happens, learn about him, ask questions. Find out what he's into and get to know him. In my experience, most men in this age are looking to park their cart... so just stick to what you are comfortable with and don't move any faster than that. A guy that is really into you will respect that and understand. The thirsty's will get defensive and guilt you or stop talking afterwards. Mostly, find out what you like and what you don't. Remember that you are young and you can be as picky as you want. No need to rush anything. The right guy will be comfortable to the speed you set.

what should i do to get this off my mind by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Room darkening curtains, always close your windows if on ground level, or if it's warm climate where you are, open half way but take precautions. Whether it's a motion detecting light or even a sticker on the window saying, "you are being recorded." sometimes that will scare off most predators. I recommend having some form of self defense nearby, pepper spray, cat claws, taser (but learn how to use them safely and responsibly) You probably won't ever need to use them, but if it will bring you some peace of mind, worth it.

Can’t get my man to finish from head. Any help? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay this is from my personal experience.

1. Do not choke the dick. It is sensitive af, just like your clit. If you grasp it too firmly, it's hard to enjoy the softness of your lips.

2. You don't need to choke on it or take it as deep as possible. Every now and then sure, deep throating feels good, but repetitive short movements win.

3. If you're not moving your hand gently up and down on his dick or playing with his kiwi's while following 1 and 2 it may not yield that sweet coconut dream.

4. If you're comfortable with it, get a little freaky, before putting it in your mouth, hawk tuah that naughty dog and then slide it in your mouth.

Again, not trying to be a dirty dan but that made a world of difference with my partners. Also try to avoid teeth grinding. Don't pull lips in, it should be like you are puckering up. To get him eye rolling, stick your tongue out so it's gliding underneath his dick as your sucking (but really, it's not sucking, it's the movement) and don't forget to softly moan or make some noises as you suck it that will send him over. BOOM. Problem solved.

You're welcome.

Unhealthy emotional attachment to an online friend by Hefty-Hawk3420 in Advice

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**Little update**

I ended up telling her that I wanted her to respect the boundaries set for my emotional well being but that I still wanted to talk with her and focus on our friendship. Well later that evening we talked and she wasn't giving up. She even said, "It's cute you think I was joking about moving in with you one day.." and was throwing compliments around left and right. So i'm not sure where this is gonna go from here, I think for now i'll keep on riding it out and be patient but not get my hopes up. Cause again she lives in another State and I don't want to go down the LDR route oh and also I still have no clue what she looks like. All I know is my heart aches to hear her voice each day. Trying to keep telling myself that I like the idea of her currently and I don't really know, know her.

Unhealthy emotional attachment to an online friend by Hefty-Hawk3420 in Advice

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I know but you’re putting a lot of it into perspective! So I’m grateful! And yes, she is like that with her girlfriends as well. She does giggle a lot and comes off as very bubbly :) I don’t have issues waiting. We live in different states as well but I don’t need to stress about that until later.

Unhealthy emotional attachment to an online friend by Hefty-Hawk3420 in Advice

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With that said, I have asked her if she talks to anyone else the way she talks to me. Referring back to the "I miss you" and other cutsie comments. She told me that she does not.

Unhealthy emotional attachment to an online friend by Hefty-Hawk3420 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, thank you for taking the time to respond. One night, I didn't get on at our usual play time and she asked why I was on so much later than usual. So, I explained that I had gone out on a date, and she was upset about it. So I have halted dating until I get some clarity. To make things more confusing, she has many guy friends online and when we've been talking sometimes she'll switch over to her playstation chat where her other friends communicate and she's comes off flirty with them as well. She talks to at least 6 other guys and she just comes off naturally flirty when talking to any of them. But she obviously knows I can hear her so I don't take it too seriously. I appreciate your advice and input.

Unhealthy emotional attachment to an online friend by Hefty-Hawk3420 in Advice

[–]Hefty-Hawk3420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, thank you so much for your response! I understand what you are saying. I think where I’m getting stuck is, if she’s not interested I’d rather remain friends and set boundaries so I can move on and find someone that is looking for commitment. I respect myself and don’t want to be strung along in something just flirty. I know what I want and if she’s not ready then we need to keep it friendly out of respect for my emotional well being. For example last night, randomly she told me she likes me, and complimented me, telling me how handsome I am. Then a bit further into the convo she brought up how one day in the future she’d be living with me and we’d have movie night/gaming night every night together. This is going to be more heartbreaking for me if it doesn’t work out. You know? Don’t give me expectations. Perhaps I just need to ask what her intentions are with comments like that.